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Tough Guise Summary

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In the first video “Tough Guise”, the one major point that caught my attention was that guys try to appear tough and strong to avoid being perceived as weak. In the video they asked multiple men what a guy should be and their responses were strong, tough, respected, masculine, a stud, athletic, and hard. All of these things are what people think our culture expects from a “real man”. This expectation from our culture creates a dangerous correlation between the way people think a man should be and the crimes committed by men. Almost all of the violent crimes committed in the United States are committed by men. In the second video “Killing us Softly” it talks about how women are viewed in society. All around us in our society, people see how women are supposed to be beautiful and have a perfect image. This sets up a certain failure for all women because there is not one woman in the world that looks perfect. This perception can hurt a woman’s self-esteem. Also, the way women are portrayed in magazines and advertisements can lead to violence toward themselves. It is hard to say this, but guys think of women as “things” and this tends to lead to terrible results. …show more content…

On any given day people do not think about how men try so hard to be tough and not show emotion; while the women are trying to be beautiful and have a perfect image. This creates a tremendous discrepancy between how people believe a man should act and how a woman should look. People stereotype men and women and if you do not fit the mold, then there is something wrong with you. This is why almost everyone follows their particular gender lines and how people think they should be; everyone just wants to fit into our society and culture. Finally, this means that everyone continues and most likely will consistently continue, to follow society's norms just so they fit into our society and

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