Parent Influences on Children Changes Society Many individuals do not realize that a child coming from an “intact married home” is 44 percent more likely to gain a college degree, 40 percent less likely to have a child before marriage, and will earn $4,000 more per year than a child that did not come from such a home. This all starts by how children are raised by their parents, and the opinions the parents have. One may argue the fact that they make their own decisions about something, such as racism, but as a matter of fact it is influenced by the surrounding people, mainly how they are raised. The idea of Racism dates all the way back to the 1800’s. Only after the Europeans established the New World, plantations were requiring enormous amounts …show more content…
This is significant because Scout looks up to Atticus. What people most often neglect to recognize is how children believe everything their parents say and take their advice as facts. In addition, Scout learns to make the same decision as Atticus to love everyone and every skin color as she grows up. Similarly, children generally never forget the lessons taught by their parents. For example, Scout had a bad day at school and when she came home in a bad mood she asked Atticus if she could stay at home and not return to school. Atticus from To Kill a Mockingbird then replied, “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view” (qtd. in Lee 85). Scout is not aware of the importance of Atticus' advice until she stands on the Radley’s porch at the very end of the novel. She starts seeing things from others perspectives and why Boo Radley has been hiding all of his life. Advisement to children is crucial because many times they believe and never forget …show more content…
Commonly, children look up to their mom and dad as role models and try to display their behavior. For instance, Kerby T. Alvy, founder and executive director of the Improvement of Child Caring writes, “Parents, in their own behavior - especially facial expressions and posture and body language - convey a lot that kids see. Other times, it can be more obvious, when parents actually talk about their biases out loud” (“How Do Parents” n. pag.). Parents behavior is very influential when they are raising a kid because they are always together. Likewise, children watch their parents every move through the good and the bad and try to model it. Typically, if a parent has a bias against African Americans they will influence their children to have the same opinion to avoid any conflict. On the other hand, sometimes parents do not realize how influential they are. An example was shown on CNN; about a five year old girl in Georgia, who is white. She was asked a series of questions regarding race. She started by looking at pictures of five identical cartoons, except their skin color ranged. But, when she was asked who the smarter child is, she pointed to a light-skinned doll. When asked who the meanest child is she pointed to a dark-skinned doll. She said a white child is good because "I think she looks like me", and said the
Scout and Jem’s decisions were impacted greatly by how much Atticus has taught them. The methods he uses to bring them up are differ greatly, and give his children a very different set of beliefs than the majority of the people of Maycomb. For example, he teaches them about empathy, a ‘skill’ that much of the community does not know. “You can never really understand a person... until you climb into their skin and walk around in it” (39). Atticus teaches his kids how to empathize with someone, giving them an ideal to live by. As a child grows up, a lot of times they inherit their parent’s belief system as well. He will continue his open-,minded accepting attitude into his children, and their future decisions will be affected greatly by Atticus’s
Scout is one of many characters in the historical fiction book To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee that develop as the story progresses. She grows throughout the novel by becoming more aware of her surroundings as the story progresses and reveals more to the reader. Also, Scout over the course of the book starts to realize what kind of man Boo Radley actually is and begins to trust him more towards the end of the book. She even walks with him and talks to him as if he were a friend of her, which he could very well be at the end of the book. Finally, Scouts morals develop by in the beginning of the book having started at level one of Kohlberg's moral development chart, but towards the end of the book reaching level two.
Despite the early introduction to this lesson, Scout doesn’t fully understand it, or at least learn it, until the very last chapter when she finally meets Boo Radley, and stands on his porch thinking about the compilation of events which make up the book, from Boo’s point of view, “Atticus was right. One time he said you never really know a man until you stand in his shoes and walk around in them. Just standing on the Radley porch was enough.” This shows the understanding Scout has finally had of the way people are perceived and the way they actually are. It shows that she has learnt what many
At an early age, children are actively thinking about race. Although their thoughts about race are not as advance compared to those of adults, their juvenile observations and opinions establish a foundation of future stereotypes and biases. When children become attentive to racial differences, the results can either be rewarding or damaging. The origin of racial attitudes among the younger demographic remains unspecified. A correlation between parenting styles and children’s racial attitudes has been considered the primary source, however, multiple research disproves the common belief. While parenting style has a strong impact on children’s racial
* Scout’s moral development throughout To Kill a Mockingbird has to do with how she is taught to see “the other”, her exposure to racism and injustice, and that she had Atticus as a parent to guide her through her childhood. These factors together create a stable learning environment for Scout to grow and develop in.
It seems as though Scout learns so much more from her father than she does from anywhere else. Atticus teaches Scout important things that she does not acquire from school, such as social skills and basic information about life. Scout listens carefully to Atticus, which shows she has much admiration for him, and that she values his advice. When Atticus' children misbehave, he uses good parenting skills to teach them right from wrong. For example, when Atticus catches Jem, Scout and Dill role-playing out Boo Radley's life he says to them, '
Throughout To Kill a Mockingbird, Scout learned to act in a more adult way and, to a degree, to see the people around her as actual human beings. Scout’s ability to understand another person’s perspective is the climax of her novel-long character development. Without these events, the outcome of the novel would’ve been very different. When Scout finally realized how Boo
Far beyond blood relatives, families are people that care for eachother, and they all have influences on one another. These families that everyone finds themselves in make up who they are as people, and shape their morals or beliefs. This idea is portrayed through countless stories and works of literature, including the novella of Mice and Men, by John Steinbeck and the novel to Kill a Mockingbird, by Harper Lee. Although their books address different topics, Lee and Steinbeck both use their individual characters to portray the theme of family impacts on people's personalities and beliefs.
Scout learns 3 important things about life in the book. One thing she learns is that life is unfair. She experiences this in a court case with her dad defending a black man named Tom Robinson who is accused for raping Mayella Ewell the daughter of Bob Ewell. Mr. Atticus had very good reasons on why Tom should not be accused of rape and everyone in the court including the jury and judge were sure that he would win but at the end of the case the jury decided
Scout rigorously was able to progress and mature, as well as adapt to new situations, visually changing her morals and outlook on her life. Scouts moral growth took off at the very beginning of the novel, early on during her issues at school with her teacher, Miss.Caroline. Scout professes her concern to Atticus on her learning, and her personal belief regarding Miss.Caroline's lack of teaching things of those similar to what Scout was learning at home. Scout felt although she was progressing more educationally at home when reading and writing with Atticus. After Scout talked to Atticus she truly realized Miss.Caroline’s point of view. In the text Atticus handled the situation with Scout by saying, “you never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view….until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” (Lee 39) Scout definitely was able to gain new insight from this experience and from talking with Atticus. Atticus was as well able to accommodate Scout in learning these new skills. Scout additionally accomplished moral growth in her experience bothering Boo Radley. Scout and her rather childish ways began back at the beginning of the book when Scout took interest in Boo Radley and his life. Scout, being intrusive and invasive at the beginning, took concern in his life, which soon she quickly learned was not proper. Atticus provided the following saying to teach Scout the importance of developing and maturing from her preprosperous ways. “Furthermore had it never occurred to us that the civil way
In chapter 31 Scout is realizing that the rumor about Boo and how everybody described him wasn’t as she imagined. The novel states “When they finally saw him, why he hadn’t done any of those things...Atticus he was real nice...His hands were underneath my chin, pulling up the cover, tucking it around me. Most people are Scout, when you finally see them” (Lee 323). In other words people shouldn’t believe what other people say about a person until you have met them. After Scout put aside those things, she finally saw and got to know him for who he really was, she considered him as a heart kinded man. This is important because if you do believe what people say you might miss out on the opportunity to make a new friend or role model because you don’t understand that person. In addition, in chapter 3 Scout’s father is explaining how to along with others better by considering their point of view. The text states “First of all,” he said if you learn a simple trick, Scout, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view...until you climb into their skin and walk around in it”(Lee 39). In other words, it isn’t until you truly put yourself in someone else’s position that you will be able to understand what that person has been going though. This illustrates the importance of considering others perspectives and a willingness to be open minded about their
Atticus is dedicated to his children. His parenting style is of good moral guidance, strong sense of morality and justice. Atticus knows right from wrong and tries to teach scout the same. Scout looks to her father for advice when Jem hits puberty and acts stern towards her. He tells her "consider things from his point of view" (39). Atticus realises that Scout is young. But he teaches her that people should not judge. Be compassionate towards others by stepping in their shoes. Scout calls her father
Parenting, lauded as one of the most difficult jobs in the world, means constantly being under the scrutiny of others, including your children’s friends. This is no different for the parenting styles of Atticus Finch, Bob Ewell, and Walter Cunningham, three parents from Harper Lee’s critically acclaimed novel To Kill A Mockingbird. Three different parentings styles led to three different types of children: the curious minded, the rascals, and the respectable, showing that how a parent treats their child and others in their lives does matter.
“As Atticus once advised me to do, I tried to climb into Jem’s skin and walk around in it”. Said Scout (Lee, 57). That’s good advice to give to a young girl that’s just getting to know what life is about. It says that Scout would never consider going over to the Radley house because she would be too scared, so she has no understanding of what Jem feels like. “If you’ll concede the necessity of going to school, we’ll go on reading every night just as we always have.” Said Atticus to Scout (Lee, 31). Atticus wants Scout to keep going to school, so she can get the education that he never got. Atticus didn’t go to school when he was younger. He wants Scout to have knowledge of what life is about at an early age so she can be a successful,
Throughout our lives we're influenced by many. It can have an effect on the way we view issues within societal boundaries. One of the major influences children have in their lives comes from their parents. The parents of a child can have both a positive and a negative influence on their lives. In the novel "To Kill A Mockingbird", there are two excellent examples of how parents can be a major influence on their children. Atticus Finch, father of Jem and Scout Finch, plays the loving, kind and knowledgeable father. He is an example of how parents can have a positive influence on their children. Bob Ewell, father of Mayella Ewell, plays the drunken, abusive, and neglectful father. He is an example of how a parent can be a negative influence