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Tim O Brien's On The Rainy River

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“The Vietnam War required us to emphasize the nation interest rather than abstract principles”(Henry Kissinger). The United States wanted to stop the spread of communism in Vietnam, but was it worth the death of millions of people including innocent civilians? Can conforming to society standards be more important to someone than pursuing their own personal desires? In the short story “On the Rainy River” by Tim O’Brien it shows how an individual’s belief is hard to sustain when there is a lot of pressure from society. The short story states that individuals may have to alter their own beliefs and values to fit in with individuals and society’s standards. Tim undergoes a moral dilemma that he attempts to resolve on his own. As a result the external …show more content…

Going to war always shows signs of might, heroism and honor. Although Tim had countless beliefs against the war, the power of influence of family and peers was so strong it made him go against his own beliefs. Elroy was a vast influence to Tim when it came to decision-making and he understood what Tim was going through. When Tim saw the envelope that said “EMERGENCY FUND”(pg79) it seems like Elroy has been through a similar dilemma when he tried to pursue his personal desires when he was younger and now he is trying to help Tim make a decision. As Elroy took Tim to the side of the river that was a section of Canada Tim bursts into tears and he agrees that his shame about avoiding the war and fear of disappointing his family is more meaningful than his civil beliefs. Tim conformed to society to protect himself because if he died during the war people would remember him as a moral man rather than remembering him as a quitter for leaving his …show more content…

Tim wanted to go to Canada, even though he had the complete opportunity to run away. He saw everyone he knew on the borderline calling him names like a coward and a traitor. This imagery shows how powerful society can be when it comes to making decisions for us. Tim was influenced by his country and family to go to war, which means he is risking his life just so he is not embarrassed and humiliated. When he returned home he told himself, “I was a coward. I went to the war”(Tim O’Brien page 84). Tim does not know how to deal with the conundrum of abiding by his moral principles and the influences of his family, friends and society. It shows how society can make anyone conform to be the same and to do what everyone else is doing. Since it took 20 years to tell his story, it demonstrates how society can make a person feel wrong and make them feel that they don’t deserve to pursue their own ideas. Did Tim make the right choice when he went to war? Society would say yes since he conformed to society and went to war. Even though he called himself a coward for going to war he would of called himself a bigger coward for fleeing to

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