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Thomas Dake: My Hero

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As Karl Marlantes once said, “when the peace treaty is signed, the war isn't over for the veterans, or the family. It's just starting” (BrainyQuote). This is true for my grandfather, Thomas Dake. After he returned home from the Vietnam War, he faced another: the war against cancer, when his daughter Kathy developed Ewing sarcoma and leukemia. Along with allowing many family members to live with him when they needed to, these reasons make my grandfather Thomas Dake a hero.
My grandfather didn’t volunteer to join the Vietnam War; nevertheless, he accepted it and did his job as well as he could. Throughout the war, he faced many difficulties. It was deadly: James Willbanks, PhD, author of numerous novels discussing the Vietnam War, states that …show more content…

During times in need, he has allowed multiple of them to stay in his house. One such person is his brother James, who has always lived in that house, which used to be their parents’. After my parents were divorced, my father rented an apartment for a few years before deciding that he was financially unable to do so anymore. My grandfather allowed him to move back, and he, along with his fiancée, stayed until the autumn of 2013. My brother and I also visited every other weekend, meaning there was occasionally even more people in the house. After my dad moved out, my grandfather’s niece took his place, arriving with her teenage son. They still live there today. Living with multiple family members in not easy. With so many people in one household, he has virtually no privacy. They are also prone to arguments: as my grandfather says, “most people are set in their ways”. One subject conflicts tend to arise from are the way things are run around the house. This includes “decorations, TV programs, air conditioning, heat settings” (Dake) and so forth. With all of the various opinions, it’s hard to find an option that pleases everybody. Despite these negative impacts, when they had no other place to go, my grandfather intervened. Instead of leaving them to fend for themselves, he invited them to stay with him for as long as they needed to with no complaint. Sacrificing these things is a mark of a hero.
There are many things that make my grandfather Thomas Dake a hero. He stepped into multiple family members shoes, caring enough to give them a house to live in during desperate times. He persisted while his daughter developing cancer, and helped her through it. Both of these happened after being drafted into the Vietnam War, which was only the start of his struggle. By going through and doing these things, Thomas Dake has shown various times that he is a

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