As Karl Marlantes once said, “when the peace treaty is signed, the war isn't over for the veterans, or the family. It's just starting” (BrainyQuote). This is true for my grandfather, Thomas Dake. After he returned home from the Vietnam War, he faced another: the war against cancer, when his daughter Kathy developed Ewing sarcoma and leukemia. Along with allowing many family members to live with him when they needed to, these reasons make my grandfather Thomas Dake a hero.
My grandfather didn’t volunteer to join the Vietnam War; nevertheless, he accepted it and did his job as well as he could. Throughout the war, he faced many difficulties. It was deadly: James Willbanks, PhD, author of numerous novels discussing the Vietnam War, states that
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During times in need, he has allowed multiple of them to stay in his house. One such person is his brother James, who has always lived in that house, which used to be their parents’. After my parents were divorced, my father rented an apartment for a few years before deciding that he was financially unable to do so anymore. My grandfather allowed him to move back, and he, along with his fiancée, stayed until the autumn of 2013. My brother and I also visited every other weekend, meaning there was occasionally even more people in the house. After my dad moved out, my grandfather’s niece took his place, arriving with her teenage son. They still live there today. Living with multiple family members in not easy. With so many people in one household, he has virtually no privacy. They are also prone to arguments: as my grandfather says, “most people are set in their ways”. One subject conflicts tend to arise from are the way things are run around the house. This includes “decorations, TV programs, air conditioning, heat settings” (Dake) and so forth. With all of the various opinions, it’s hard to find an option that pleases everybody. Despite these negative impacts, when they had no other place to go, my grandfather intervened. Instead of leaving them to fend for themselves, he invited them to stay with him for as long as they needed to with no complaint. Sacrificing these things is a mark of a hero.
There are many things that make my grandfather Thomas Dake a hero. He stepped into multiple family members shoes, caring enough to give them a house to live in during desperate times. He persisted while his daughter developing cancer, and helped her through it. Both of these happened after being drafted into the Vietnam War, which was only the start of his struggle. By going through and doing these things, Thomas Dake has shown various times that he is a
Vietnam is the subject of Journal #1, but more importantly the effect of Vietnam on individuals. Tim O'Brien, in his book, describes a number of personal events that he experienced as a result of his experiences in Vietnam. One of the most interesting assertions he makes is when he claims that because he went to war, he was a coward. (O'Brien) He makes this claim because he was really opposed to the war but did not have the courage to stand up an announce his opposition. Instead he simply obeyed orders and sent to war. But he forgets that there is a difference between the courage to stand up for one's convictions and the courage to face actual death. His claim of being a coward is a personal judgment based on his personal emotions, while his acceptance of actual danger and the risk of death proved that he was not. I believe that his guilt over not opposing the war publicly, not evading the draft, was the source of his feelings of cowardice. However, the horrors faced in Vietnam were the true test of courage, and he passed that test.
“the was nakedly and aggressively boring.” (Page 34). “War is nasty, war is fun, war is thrilling, war is drudgery, war makes you a man; war makes you dead.” (Page 80). Most veterans that survived in the Vietnam War wanted to forget some of the things and events that took place within the war.
Have you ever met a person who was forced to their home and family just to fight for innocent people from another country? Despite that, farming for long hours each day, and fighting life-threatening health risks, my grandfather, Leroy Recker, refuses to stop helping other no matter what, and that makes him a hero. He gave up his time to protect his nation and the people in, and even those of a nation he didn’t even know, without any objections. He now farms with his brother and son each year even though he is fighting a large amount of issues with his health. Leroy has given so much to others and his country, and deserves more honor and recognition as a hero than he is given.
During the Vietnam War, these soldiers has shed their blood and sacrificed their future for their homeland, but their government, their society and their families alienates and forsakes them. Unlike any other wars happened throughout the history of America, the reason for United States to get involve in the Vietnam War is to stop the spread of communism, a very simple but also very unreasonable. Instead of volunteer, the majority of the soldiers in Vietnam War were drafted without any prior notice. Hence, before going to war, the soldiers find themselves having a difficult time of trying to seek for a reasonable purpose of going to war. Some people try to escape from the drafting process and stay home or continue their education. Other people, who actually go to war say “’I just want
Wars are a difficult place to be. “THE VIETNAM WAR transformed a generation” (Roberts 1). With all that happened during the war such as exposure to
To this day, many Vietnam veterans suffer and feel forgotten, unappreciated, and even discriminated against. Combat experiences or physical disabilities have ruined some of their lives. For more, returning to normal life had not been easy. "Imagine if you had just graduated out of high school and were sent to a guerrilla warfare far away from your home. During the war, you were exposed to a lot of stress, confusion, anxiety, pain, and hatred. Then you were sent back home with no readjustment to the lifestyle in the states, no deprogramming of what you learned from the military, and no "welcome home" parades. You are portrayed to the public as a crazed psychopathic killer with no morals or control over your aggression. You find that there 's nobody you can talk to or who can understand what you 've been through, not even your family. As you re-emerge into civilization, you struggle to establish a personal identity or a place in society because you lack the proper education and job skills. In addition, there are no supportive groups to help you find your way, which makes you feel even more isolated, unappreciated, and exploited for serving your country" (Thompson 279). This situation is like what many Vietnam veterans had felt upon returning home from war.
He is a hero through kindness and generosity and is always determined to do right for reasons other than wealth and fame (Clark,
I have learned a lot about what life was like at the time of the Vietnam War by interviewing my grandfather. My grandfather, Franklin Torr, was living in Dover, NH at the time, in his late thirties, married, and had three young children. The Vietnam War impacted my grandfather’s life in a unique way. One aspect of his life that changed at the start of the war was that a lot of his tenants, in the mobile home he owned, were in the New Hampshire National Guard and were stationed in Vietnam, flying missions, and some were advisors. He said the following about them; “Of the tenants that fought in the war, they thought they were doing the right thing at the time” When asked if he could provide a story of one of his Vietnam War veterans, he said that not a lot of them liked to talk about their war experiences in depth, two of his tenants that served in Vietnam died in Vietnam. One of his former classmates was a Marine Colonel, one thing he remembers this man mentioning was; “the troops did a great job while they were there”. The most shocking thing that he remembers from this
The impact of the Vietnam War upon the soldiers who fought there was huge. The experience forever changed how they would think and act for the rest of their lives. One of the main reasons for this was there was little to no understanding by the soldiers as to why they were fighting this war. They felt they were killing innocent people, farmers, poor hard working people, women, and children were among their victims. Many of the returning soldiers could not fall back in to their old life styles. First they felt guilt for surviving many of their brothers in arms. Second they were haunted by the atrocities of war. Some soldiers could not go back to the mental state of peacetime. Then there were soldiers Tim O’Brien meant while in
“91% of Vietnam Veterans say they are glad they served in the war and 3 out of 4 of them say that they would go back and serve again, even though they know the outcome of the war”. (http://healthresearchfunding.org)
Anyone who influences anyone else by saving or helping save his or her lives can be a hero. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. changed the lives of millions of people by bringing justice to minorities. Mahatma Gandhi, one of the greatest heroes, led a nonviolent revolution to free his country. Even a parent can be a hero to his or her child by leading them in the right direction. All teachers are heroes when they make it their job to teach a child anything that will help them in life. You don’t have to go to great lengths by risking your life to make a difference in someone else’s life.
In Tim O’Brien’s fictional narrative “On the Rainy River,” the narrator faces the dilemma of avoiding the draft or submitting and going to Vietnam, a common predicament that many men faced after receiving draft cards for the Vietnam War. O’Brien displays the thought process of the narrator as he makes a decision, and near the beginning, the narrator describes certain qualities that he believes make him “too good for [that] war”(2). He lists off achievements like “president of the student body” and “full-ride scholarship,” arguing for the idea that he is “above” going to war(O’Brien 2). Through explaining what the narrator believes to be superior traits, the reader might begin to ask, “What types of people actually went to the war?” If the narrator feels that he was above going to Vietnam, there must be some preconceived notion of who was expected to serve. After seeing how the narrator reacted to his call to battle, a question is left of whether the draft was fair in relation to social classes.
I’m glad my dad came home safely from the war and still in his right mind. A six year war like that could kill a man physically, emotionally, or socially. But that war was fought mostly by hillbillies no one has ever heard of like my daddy and granddaddy, but grand dad wasn’t so fortunate as daddy was. I imagine when I grow up there will be another war and I’ll be drafted and I’ll walk up my driveway to my wife and
Heroes are not always people who lead marches or do things for their country. For example policemen, firefighters, nurses, lifeguards etc. are heroes everyday because they take the time to save lives. When they’re going through a challenge or trying to overcome a conflict they always have courage. These people risk their own life to save someone else’s. To be more specific Dr. Ginger Holt from Dallas had saved a little boy’s leg. She was confident and determined to finding out what went wrong in the boy’s leg and went through many procedures looking at the tests.
There are many different heroes in the world known to have an outstanding impact on the world today. A hero is someone that presents unique attributes in order to achieve greatness and reach their full potential in life. The society most often places this person on a much higher scale than the average class of civilization. In my life, the person who best reveals the qualities of a hero is my grandpa, Gran. Throughout his life, Gran has displayed the characteristics of being humble, determined, and supportive to both my family and me.