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Theory Of Development And Attachment Theory

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Development/ Attachment Psychoanalyst, John Bowlby in the mid 19th hundreds, investigated attachment theory. Over the years, we have enhanced our understanding on how children attach to their primary caregiver earlier in life. Supported by attachment theory, infants have a window for the development of attachment to the primary caregiver, which, usually happens during the first months of life (Hardy, 2007). Given that Alexander’s parents’ left when he was only 3 months and was raised by his grandparents, it is no surprise that when he reunited with his parents, they felt like complete strangers to him, because they were not the ones meeting his needs early in life. Taking into account that Alexander’s window for the development of attachment closed many years ago, helps us understand why after four years of interaction with his biological parents, he feels no type of connection to them. Unfortunately, regardless of his parent’s expectations and supported by attachment theory, Alexander will no longer be able to develop the relationship built with his grandparents with any other primary caregiver.
Anxiety
Immediately after his arrival form El Salvador, Alexander felt like as if his parents were complete strangers. Not only did he have to get used to the idea that these complete strangers were his parents, he also had to accept the idea that he now had to live with them. He expressed that communication with his parents has always been a challenge. Furthermore,

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