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The Social Exchange Theory From The Perspective Of The Social Exchange Theory

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Social Exchange

The social exchange theory is a theory that believes people form relationships depending on the amount of rewards they may get out of it or what it may cost them to form and maintain these relationships. My day viewing my social interactions from the perspective of the social exchange theory began at 4:30 am when I was awoken by my best friend, Derry, telling me that she was leaving my house. She had come over the night before to hang out, have a glass of wine, and to try and get me out of my head. At 4:30 am, I got out of bed to lock the door behind her, when I noticed that my bottle of wine was missing, and she had it in her hand. I was baffled that she would take my wine without asking, as she has never done anything like this before. In this situation, she was rewarded because she now had a $50 bottle of wine that she didn’t pay for, and it came as a cost to me. More than me losing a bottle of wine I had bought, I was now questioning why she would do that. Our relationship is strong, and it is something that is worth fighting for, but I was still feeling uneasy about the situation. I called her before going back to bed to ask her about it, she said that she didn’t think I would mind, and that I could come get it the next day if it was a problem. I took a loss in this situation because I didn’t want to retrieve the bottle from her and have tension between us, so I decided to let her keep it. I analyzed the situation and realized that this was a

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