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The Responsibility Of Rape Victims

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In today’s society, we are dealing with people that blame not only sexually assaulted victim’s but also tell potential victims, especially women, that it is their duty to make sure they are not assaulted. Rape is a crime in which one person has sexual intercourse with another without that person’s consent. But why are crime victims often blame themselves for what they've been through? Feelings of guilt and shame are common reactions following a sexual assault. Because of misconceptions about rape, some victims blame themselves, doubt their judgment, or wonder if they were in some way responsible for the assault. The victims after the attack may have feelings of guilt and self-blame because they are reinforced by the reactions of others, who, …show more content…

Some survivors surrender to protect themselves or their loved ones. The victim may be drugged, physically or mentally incapacitated, intoxicated. According to the writer Morber, “sometimes, rape survivor will experience increasingly intense physical sensations leading to climax being an orgasm.” How can that occur? How can a victim being raped, especially violent rape, get aroused and orgasm? Doesn’t make the case any less severe and doesn’t give consent for the criminal act. An orgasm just represents a peak of sexual pleasure, a state of euphoria. Sexual arousal is housed in the autonomic nervous system, the same reflex-driven system that underlies heart rate, digestion, and perspiration. Our bodies respond to “often entirely without our permission or intention.” According to research and Morber article “orgasm during rape isn't an example of an expression of pleasure. It's an example of a physical response whether the minds on board or …show more content…

Every 107 seconds, another American is sexually assaulted. Each year, there are about 293,000 victims of sexual assault. Approximately four out of five assaults are committed by someone the victim knows; 47 percent of rapists are an acquaintance or friend. While 68 percent of sexual assaults are not reported to the police concluding in 98 percent of rapists will never spend a day in jail.” If, as a society, we continue to blame victims and refuse to acknowledge the truth of sexual assault we cannot expect rates of sexual violence to improve. People who blame victims believe that if they do certain things - wear the 'right' clothes, don't go out at night, don't get drunk, teach their children about stranger danger - then they'll be safe from sexual assault. We need to give our survivors a fighting chance so they can step forward and speak honestly about their experiences. The more open our conversations about sexuality become, the more people will finally start to accept that rape is a crime and one that no one deserves, or should ever have to

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