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The Men We Carry In Our Minds Summary

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The great American activist Kimberle Williams Crenshaw once said “Intersectionality is not easy”. It's not as though the existing frameworks that we have - from our culture, our politics, or our law - automatically lead people to being conversant and literate in intersectionality.” In this unit we talked about genders, what women truly want, and different struggles, but one thing I got from this is that us men would never really know what women want. On a more serious note, I saw that everyone else in class is talking about Masculinity or Stereotypes. But I saw intersectionality both in “A Girl in The River” because she couldn’t marry the man she wanted to because of his social class and in “The Men We Carry in Our Minds” as it showed the different …show more content…

for example, Sanders says in the text “first time I met women who told me that men were guilty of having kept all the joys and privileges of the earth for themselves. I was baffled by that. What are the privileges of the ad? What joys?” see here it’s talking about the men she envied and Sanders was baffled because he thought she was talking about the men that he grew up with; the working class men, the warriors and the toilers but he was wrong because she was talking about the men she grew up with. Men that had power were wealthy and that didn’t work their butts off to make a living, Men that were born with a silver spoon in their mouths. “Warriors and toilers: those seemed, in my boyhood vision, to be the chief destinies for men.” Those were the type of men Sanders knew, those men who didn’t have much opportunity in life, those who were behind. That’s why he was baffled when those girls said she envied men. In other words, everything isn’t always what it seems, perspective, struggles and many other factors go into the way we view …show more content…

For instance, Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy showed in the film that the protagonist Saba has gotten to that point where in her country a woman finds a man and they marry. Saba finds a man she falls in love with, but her father and uncle forbid her to marry him because of his financial status. As a woman that follows her heart, she went out and got married to that man, but her father went out and almost killed her because of her disobedience. In other words, Obaid-Chinoy is saying that even though we live in a country where women have a voice, they’re allowed to vote and do these other great things. I also think that the author is trying to show us that even though both genders may have "equal" rights, there's always one that may be treated differently. I know in some places of the world women are oppressed and mistreated, but it’s not like that everywhere. We see this mistreatment in “A Girl in the River” where Saba doesn’t get much of a say in her future, she has no rights and she is forced to do things she doesn’t want. Sadly we can see this mistreatment in the world today, mostly in women, but we can see it in men as well, but we see it more in women because men are those in “power”. We see that men have all the opportunities in the world, but once a woman steps out of line and wants a chance at that greatness, she’s mistreated. A woman doesn’t always have a

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