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The Importance Of Marriages In Jewish Marriage

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In Jewish Religion Marriage ceremonies are major steps in not only Jewish individual’s lives but also the Jewish community as a whole. Marriage is seen as a significant part of any Jewish individual’s life as it is seen as a blessing from God and that marriage was not created for simple sexual drive but for the natural order of creation. In the Jewish community marriage is seen as a vital step that needs to be taken in order to continue with life and once done is fulfilling the requirements of Gods wish. There are many rituals and traditions in the marriage ceremony that express Jewish adherent’s beliefs that affect the adherents and the community such as the seven blessings or the use of the Chuppah.
A very common ritual done in Jewish wedding ceremonies is the breaking of a glass object, usually a special chalice wrapped in a velvet bag or cloth. The tradition of breaking the glass is include in all wedding ceremony as it represents the ultimate act of vowing to God and the final commitment in the marital covenant. The idea that surrounds the shattering of the bottle is that of the bottle representing the vulnerability of human relationships and the care that it is required to maintain the bond. Usually a male just before the end of the ceremony will place a glass object (wrapped in a cloth or bag for safety precautions) under his foot and stomp down to crush it. There are three main interpretations as to why this is done; one interpretation comes from a story in the Talmud, two Rabbi Men who were annoyed at participants at a wedding for being too loud and out of control caused a scene throwing bottles below their feet to keep the others quiet and well detained. The second interpretation is that it is a representation of the shattering of the Temple in Jerusalem and the idea that even when feeling personal joy to its greatest extent they must recall the pain and suffering of Jewish people and remember a world of needed healing. The final main interpretation is the idea that when God creates an individual and they are born their soul is shattered into two and they must then spend their time trying to find the other half to themselves and then join themselves together as one through marriage becoming “one

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