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The Gift Of Happiness

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The “Gift” of Happiness
Although some people believe that consumerism is driving people’s desire to be happy, I believe that the desire for happiness is dependent on personal factors such as relationships with family and friends. When it comes to happiness, I have found myself in a state of contentment while I’ve spent time with my family members. I believe that happiness is achieved through the value within the quality of a relationship with family and friends as opposed to the quantity of materialistic items one has. Also, people tend to misinterpret having a multitude of options as a benefit to their happiness, when in reality it is the opposite due to the stress caused from the fear of making the wrong choice. Although happiness can be …show more content…

People tend to think of children as the happiest people, and maybe it is because they are unaware of consumerism and instead opt to find happiness within loved ones.
Furthermore, it is known that consumerism benefits the economy especially when a specific item becomes the deciding factor for meeting the standards set by society. In order for this relationship to work correctly it is necessary for there to be many options of different products to choose from. The idea of having many options can at first seem beneficial to your happiness because it feels as if you are given the power to make your own choice, but that is often misleading. To further idea of how having a multitude of options can be negative to your happiness, Dan Gilbert quotes Adam Smith saying, “The great source of both the misery and disorders of human life seems to arise from overrating the difference between one permanent situation and another…”. Smith is explaining how when someone is faced with two or more options they tend to over exaggerate the importance of the choice that they make. Instead of being happy it is known that people tend to spend time fearing that they have made the wrong decision when in reality it may have only made a situation slightly different. I strongly agree with this idea because I tend to overstress decision making and end up less happy when I am asked to make the

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