In her book Quiet Susan Cain explains that, much like our ideal appearance or ideal economic status, there is also an ideal that extroversion is the socially acceptable way of conversing, interacting and behaving in our society. The argument posed by Cain in Quiet is that everyone is different and often we have introverts forcing themselves to become something they innately “are not” in order to feel/appear socially successful. Quiet discusses how this phenomenon evolved around the turn of the century when manufacturers began telling people how to become “successful” and more importantly “successful” as their consumers. Prior to the late 1800’s inner charm and thoughtfulness was considered virtuous but this quickly evolved into a thing of the past once big business sought new consumers. Within a period of 20 or so years extroversion and charm were not only the best social traits but also who most manufacturers wanted as their consumers. Many ads would imply that a person might be judged unfavorably if anything other than an extrovert. Some examples of what Cain refers to as “personality driven” ads are The Williams Shaving Cream company ad’s stating: “Critical eyes are sizing you up right now” or Woodbury Soap telling readers “All around you people are judging you silently.” Woodbury also implies that young women are a social failure if using any other product showing what Cain describes as a “crestfallen young woman, home alone after a disappointing evening out” (Cain
¨There was a law against luke. Not him personally everyone like him, kids who were born after their parents already had two babies (pg 6)¨. Would you like a law against you? Among the hidden by Margaret Peterson Haddix clearly shows that dictatorship is horrible. In this novel Luke is not allowed to leave the house or be seen. Luke leaves the house in cover and meets a girl the same as him she can't go anywhere so she tries to convince luke to rebel to be like regular people with her but he is to nervous. Luke shows the character traits of brave, jealousy and adventurous as he hides in the shadows.
In Susan Cain’s book Quiet, The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, she writes about extroverts and introverts and their roles in our society. She gives real world stories of how introverted and extroverted individuals become successful. In Chapter one, “How Extroversion Became the Cultural Ideal”, Cain states how being an extrovert increased throughout the 20th century. For example, extroversion started showing up in schools, such as extracurricular activities, which favor kids who are extroverts. While writing this chapter, she did well adding emotional appeal through the story stories she told. Cain also did well using logical appeal, ethical appeal, stakeholders, and her values. Susan Cain
In World War One, the war was fought in two places, in France and in England. England was never physically in the war, but France truly saw the actions. The citizens of England put their best foot forward when it came to contributing to war. The truth was that there was a great divide between the two fronts. The war front, fields bloodied and smear with greasy mud. The home front, standing tall with pride, patriotism, and power. In the book, Not so Quiet…. written by Helen Smith, who have experienced the cruel harsh reality of the war, she describes the ugly side of the war and how everyone view the war. When the war started in 1914, there was need for manpower on the front line, men and women step up to take on roles, Helen was among a group of other girls that contributed on taking on the role of taking care of the wounded and the deceased.
I am reading Silence by Natasha Preston. I am on page 249. In this book Oakley has been silent for eleven years. She stopped talking at the age of five and no one knows why. Oakley and Cole have been friends forever.
In addition, advertising feeds from mob mentality, convincing people a product will change their lives by deeming it fashionable or sophisticated. It bypasses logical thinking to take control of how people view themselves and their “need for esteem. People want and need to be respected and we need to feel good about ourselves. And this is where much advertising lives, often because we are selling products that people really do not need. L’Oreal’s ‘Because you’re worth it’ is the perfect example” (Madigan 83). For this reason, expectations of a person are manipulated to fit the wants of the industry to sell products. These people are affected since they feel as if they have no choice in what to wear, how their body should appear to others, and which brands they buy. It all comes down to the need to be apart of something bigger, instead of sticking out from the crowd.
In the book The Silence That Binds Us, author Joanna Ho raises the issue of racism among the Asian community and suggests that we tend to underlook it. The author tells a story about a young woman named Maybelline who’s older brother Danny, the golden child that just got accepted into Princeton, secretly struggles with depression and unfortunately dies by suicide, and how his suicide affects not only May but her friends, family, and her community. One of the characters, Mr. McIntyre, begins to describe how he sees the Asian kids that go to Sequioa Park High School by saying, “Asian kids don’t play sports. They don’t have social lives. They’re a machine that works.
Stephen King once said, “Fiction is a lie, and good fiction is the truth inside the lie.” This concept that fiction holds truth is shown in The Silence of Murder, a novel by Dandi Daley Mackall. The main character Jeremy Long is a 16 year old boy who suffers from a mental illness called selective mutism and because of this he choses not to talk. He is convicted of murdering the local school baseball coach John Johnson. He has always had a hard time of expressing himself because of his selective mutism and it made the trial extremely hard for his family because wouldn’t say anything that happened. Though a work of fiction, The Silence of Murder shows larger truths about the mentally ill, murder trials, how the insanity plea works and how people
In her article Shyness: Evolutionary Tactic? author Susan Cain addresses many of the preconceived notions society has against introverted people. Cain argues that society tends to favor the outgoing and extroverted and shames those who prefer to be alone rather than socialize. The author utilizes certain writing strategies as a way to change her audience’s original views surrounding introversion. Cain’s use of comparing and contrasting, specific examples, and strong transitions that bridge various ideas to each other make her argument, that introverts are essential to society, much more persuasive.
Susan Cain’s Ted Talk The Power Of Introverts brought a new conversation to society in how introverts are treated. Five years ago (when this took place) this topic was not very well discussed, which made this piece very eye opening for some. Using Aristotle's appeals: logos and pathos, as well as a comparative argument in her ted talk, Cain persuades viewers that we as a society oppress/shame introverts, not allowing them to strive or be themselves in our now extroverted society. She advocates for a more balanced society that serves both introverts and extroverts instead of just extroverts.
Susan Cain is an honors graduate of Princeton and Harvard Law School. Since graduating Cain has become the chief revolutionary and co-founder of the Quiet Revolution and the co-founder of the Quiet Schools Network and the Quiet Leadership Institute. Cain is also the author of the bestsellers Quiet Power: The Secret Strengths of Introverts and Quiet: The Power of Introverts in A World That Can’t Stop Talking, which has been on the New York Times bestseller list for almost three years and was named the #1 best book of the year by Fast Company magazine. The goal of the Quiet Revolution is to unlock the power of introverts for the benefits of everyone which was discussed in the TED talk that is being analyzed in this essay. The TED talk “The power of introverts” has been viewed over 17 million times and was named one of Bill Gates all-time favorite talks. The purpose of this speech was to inform the audience about how introversion is not what most people make it out to be. Throughout her speech, Cain compares and contrast introversion with extroversion and
Advertising has come a long way in terms of advancement with the enlightenment of the new technological age we live in now. In James Twitchell’s essay “What We Are to Advertisers,” the author explains that mass production means mass marketing, and mass marketing means the creation of mass stereotypes. Generally, the use of stereotypical profiling in our society not only exists in regards to race, social class, personality type, and gender but also holds a special meaning in advertising circles as well. To advertisers, stereotyping has become an effective means to pitch their products according to the personality profiles they have concocted for us and are most times eerily accurate. For instance, according to advertisers, the daytime
Susan Cain’s “Power of Introverts” talk was all about the importance of people who are considered introvertly inclined in our society. In her talk, she described first how her family influenced her in being an introvert. Reading is her family’s social activity and that one can roam around through his or her own imagination. She also discussed about her memorable summer camp story where she has discovered the way extrovert people live and tried to shift in this kind of life. With all these changes in her life she never left her introverted life and espoused the ideas that when it comes to creativity and leadership, the society needs introverts and the things where they excel most. She explained that introversion is how one responds to stimulation including social stimulation which is different from a person being shy – the fear of social judgment.
A famous short story, “The Quiet Man,” by Maurice Walsh, tells the tale of the protagonist, Shawn Kelvin, who must come to a resolution both internally and externally throughout the story. Shawn experiences a rollercoaster of up and downs during the story, around the 1950’s in Ireland. Shawn finds the women of his dreams and he marries her, but her brother, Big Liam O’Grady, is the man of the town. Traditionally, dowry is given from the bride’s family to the groom's family. Shawn has no respect from Big Liam O’Grady, or the town. Shawn wants to receive his respect from Big Liam O’Grady and love from Ellen. Shawn is willing to do anything for her, even it comes down to a fight. Shawn fights himself and others, internally and externally, to
According to many psychologists and other social experts, there exist two major social behaviors that are widely adopted globally by a person as they mature into young adulthood: extraversion or introversion. Extroverts are expressive individuals who appear to be energized and enjoy seeking activities that involve socialization with others where as a reserved individual (introvert) prefers solitary pursuits where he or she often partakes in a favorite pastime. In her novel Introvert Power: Why Your Inner Life is Your Hidden Strength, Laurie Helgoe statistically explores the fact that more than one half of the American populace claims to be reticent and encourages those folks to embrace their natural selves (“Book Details” 1). Introverts
In the article “Stop Forcing Introverts to Speak in Class, There are Better Ways.” written by Tara Malone, the author talks about her opinion and personal experience with being an introvert in school. Malone begins by describing her personality as an introvert, she says, “I had always been reserved, preferring to read and daydream than participate in my classmates noisy games.” At school, Malone would sit alone and do quiet activities by herself. She was obviously different, but no one said anything about it until college. She had one particularly debilitating experience, in which one of her professors humiliated her: ‘“What’s your point?’ he demanded irritably, and I quickly wrapped up my statement, burning with embarrassment and fighting back tears.” Her professor embarrassed her about something she was not confident about. It took her a great deal of courage to say something without being positive she was right. After that incident, Malone stopped speaking in that class altogether, and her participation also lowered in other classes. Participation can be a very important part of one's grade in a class, and that can make it very hard for introverted students to receive a good grade. Malone had one teacher who really made a difference in her education. Her teacher's name was Professor Simon, who taught creative writing, short fiction, and novel writing classes. Malone found it difficult to “formulate my thoughts” and to “express my ideas”. Professor Simon recognized Malone