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Speech On Grief And Grief

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I know think are confusing right now Hamlet and your father just died but before you do anything, I want to explain why your feeling what your feeling. Hamlet, it's tough to tell what you're suffering from but presumably grief or grieving. The reason it is tough to tell is that it is possible you could also have a mental condition called clinical depression. The reason however it is more likely grieving and not depression is because before your father died you're but after your father died, your uncle Claudius said you had “change of heart", which is indicative of the fact that before your father died you were not as moody and depressed. Grief essentially means that you feel as if darkness and gloominess, a deep sorrow especially caused by death. Some of the symptoms of the grief include mood swings, dismal and depressive thoughts and social isolation and all of which you illustrate throughout your story. Your grief has been compounded and building up since your fathers death. Your uncle says that it is weak and unmanly to wallow in your grief for so long, and your mother is not sympathetic of your grief and that you should his your signs of mourning.
So what should you do? Well for starters an excellent idea would be to move away from the thing that is the root or source of your grief, which, would be your father and your family. Claudia does not want you to express your grief because he views them as inappropriate and your mother does not want you to make a scene, so by suppressing your emotions you are making it worse. I know that your mother does not want you to leave to Wittenberg because she believes you will adjust in time, but you are not going to adjust if the issue is shoved in your face every day. The next things after that would be being allowed to express your feelings and be melancholy and gloomy. You will probably move through the 5 stages of grief: Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. According to Lydia Snyder, a fourth-year medical student, "(the grief process) help us... to cope with stressful events...don't keep (anger) in." We can assume that if you are not supposed to keep anger then keeping in any other part of the process would also not be advised.
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