Slut Shaming “I have a dream…” that one day girls will stop being slut shamed for opinion based reasons. Constantly women are being slut shamed by both men and women. I bet many have wondered what goes on in a man’s mind, that can lead to slut shaming. In Mice of Men you get a small look inside the mind of men, and what leads to their reason for slut shaming the character Curley’s wife. Curley’s wife is always referred to as a slut by the men on the ranch, ignoring that she has no one else to talk to. It is obvious that Curley’s wife is treated unfair on the ranch. She is constantly being slut shamed for reasons that aren’t thought out. Many people disregard that Curley’s wife doesn’t have many or any friends on the ranch. There aren’t other girls that we know of for her to talk to, she is surrounded completely by men. Time after time she is pushed aside by the men. In addition to that they constantly slut shame her to her face and behind her back. She tries constantly to tell people how she feels, and of course her feeling are ignored. In the book when George …show more content…
Solely based on her talking to other men on the ranch, while she has a husband. I can see how that may not seem wrong especially from a boy's point of view. Although Curley’s wife is ignored by many. Being a girl on a ranch full of boy, you are bound to talk to them. Especially when she has nothing else to do. Also Curley her own husband ignores her. This making her feel lonely. Curley’s wife explains to George and Lennie , “Well, I ain’t giving you no trouble. Think I don’t like to talk to somebody ever’ once in awhile? Think I like to stick in that house alla time?” (73). Even though Curley’s wife is not always clear about her feelings doesn’t mean she doesn’t have them. Curley’s wife is an overlooked character, but that doesn’t take away her importance in the story. She should not be slut shamed based on opinions of the big egoed
Curley’s Wife was a subject of Prejudice because she was a woman. During the 1930’s a woman’s place was to be at home raising a family, also women were seen as second class citizens and property of their husbands. Before we meet Curley’s Wife, the reader already has an opinion of her because of what the character Candy calls her- “jail bait”; George calls her a “tramp”. It’s implied that she is a tart and a promiscuous woman; she craves the attention her husband doesn’t give her.
Curleys wife -Curley 's wife 's loneliness has altered her demeanor towards others tremendously, making her overtly insecure and excessively flirtatious. Curley 's wife has become virtually another person because of loneliness. The men on the ranch avoid her because of flirtatious personality to keep out of trouble. No one understands her situation and how loneliness affects her. Her insecurity is evident by the way she dresses and utilizes her make-up. She uses her appearance to receive attention like when "[Curley 's Wife] was standing there looking in. She had full, rouged lips and wide-spaced eyes, heavily made up. Her fingernails were red. Her hair hung in little rolled clusters,
Curleys wife is provocative with her body language as she is described to have “put her hands behind her back and leaned against the door frame so that her body was thrown forward” and “she looked at her fingernails”, she is very conscious of the affect she has on men and uses this to her advantage however her inappropriate clothes and her behavior I think are designed to provoke interest and attention rather than to invite intimacy, we later learn this is because of her loneliness in her marriage to Curley. Her loneliness is clear by her constant asking of the whereabouts of Curley proving she is just looking for an excuse to continue her conversation with the ranch workers.
Curley’s wife is a victim because Curley her husband, abuses and mistreats her. Curley is always curious and spectacle of where his wife is as if he does not trust her with other men. Commonly asked by Curley "y'all seen my wife around?". Perfectly explaining as of how low the trust is in their relationship. Curley is also presented a being one of the cockiest, if not the cockiest, on the ranch, despite his size. Everyone on the ranch can see it too, the Swamper says” He’s cockier then ever since he got married.” The way Curley act’s comes off as he has a good-looking wife just to present her looks off to other men on the ranch, as a way to show his power. Or is treated because Curley truly does not care about her, he is really not in love
By looking more closely at the story, one can see that Curley’s wife is also a metaphor which symbolizes the way which other people looked upon women in the society of the 1930’s. Curley’s wife represents a whole marginalized group in the American society at that time. In the novel, characters are never fully developed, but instead appear as outlines or symbols of real people. Candy, Crooks, and Curley's wife represent the discriminated groups of age, race, and sex. Curley’s wife has been given an overall picture in the eyes of George and Lennie before they even meet her, by Candy. The picture Candy paints about her hints at how she tends to give all the men on the ranch ‘the eye’. Nobody really knows Curley’s wife because nobody ever talks to her and listens to what she really has to say. Curley’s wife wants attention. She wants people to notice her. She is the only woman on the ranch out of all the men. She wears fancy clothes and nice make up to make her look beautiful and
Curley’s wife, who is never given a name, but always called “Curley’s wife”, is shown with a lot of sexual prejudice. She is referred to as a “looloo” (51) with a very flirtatious nature and “she got the eye goin’ all the time on everybody”, and she might “even gives the stable buck they eye” (51). A "ranch with a bunch of guys on it ain’t no place for a girl, specially like
Curley's wife is cast out because she is a woman. Curley watches over her carefully since she is his wife and the only woman on the farm. Curley does not allow his wife to converse with the other workers because he is afraid she will be unfaithful. She complains that individually, the men are generally nice, but in groups, they shun her and are sometimes cruel. Since Curley's wife is oppressed, she lashes out at a target that is weaker than she is, which is usually Crooks. He does the same.
Curley’s wife, on the other hand, is not insecure, but suffers from ostracism and isolation because she is a married woman. Michael Meyer points out, “…the hardship for a woman to live on the ranch as presented in the novel should not be ignored”. Curley’s wife only wants someone to talk with her, but the men on the ranch mistake her trying to start conversations as sexual advances: “I never seen nobody like her. She got the eye goin’ all the time on everybody… I don’t know what the hell she wants” (Steinbeck 51). They also ridicule her, calling her a
Curley’s wife is probably one of the most misunderstood characters in the novel, often being looked down upon, or talked badly about. She is the only woman on the ranch, and who appears consistently throughout the novel. At one point, some of the workers are
Swell guy, ain't he? Spends all his time sayin' what he's gonna do to guys he don't like, and he don't like nobody."(78) This quote shows Curley's wife's displeasure with her husband it also shows that Curley doesn't really spend much time with her unless he's talking about who he want's to fight next. Curley's wife try's to make up for her husbands absenteeism by trying to make friends with the other ranch hands, but she go's about it in a way that scares the away from her. She wears too much makeup and shows off her body to the men in provocative ways.
She has no friends and no one takes the time to listen to her. As the only woman on the ranch she has nobody to turn to. Curley doesn’t appreciate her or take the time to talk to her. When she goes to Crook’s stable her emotions overtake her and she admits her loneliness, “Think I don’t like to talk to somebody ever’ once in awhile? Think I like to stick in that house alla time?” (77) She is always stuck in the house either alone or with Curley. Curley just ignores her and doesn't give her the attention that she wants. So she finds it from other men. As the only woman she has only the workers for company. She is isolated and all alone. She only gets attention when she flirts with the men, nobody appreciates her for anything else. They all know she’s unfaithful and flirty, so when alone with her they take advantage of her. The men on the ranch only give her attention if it is to flirt with her,“”If I catch any one man, and he’s alone, I get along fine with him. But just let two of the guys get together an’ you won’t talk...Ever’ one of you’s scared the rest is goin’ to get something on you.”” (77) The guys on the ranch only pay attention to her when they are alone with her. So they can mess around with her without the other workers knowing. They especially don’t want Curley to find out. It’s hard for Curley’s wife to feel at home on the ranch when no one wants to be her friend.
She is considered an outcast because she is a woman. All that she wants is freedom and the ability to leave the house and talk to who she wants, but this is very difficult for her. When she tries to talk to the men on the ranch, they characterize her as a tramp because of her flirtatious personality and disregard everything she says and tells her to go back to the house. These actions can make Curley’s wife feel belittled and degraded because she doesn’t want to be stuck in the house like the ideal “housewife.” In the book they don’t even give her a name, which should reveal that they significant separation between men and women. The only other character in the book without a name is candy's dog. Another way that the ranchmen belittled Curley’s wife is by completely avoiding and treating her poorly when she was around. They outcasted her by making her feel like she didn’t belong, but the only reason she hung around them was to socialize, which she rarely got to do. Curley’s wife was upset because all the men called her a tramp and slutty and said that she should be waiting for Curley in the house. She tells the men , “ you can talk to people but I can’t talk to nobody but Curley. Else he gets mad” (87). Curley's wife wants to feel like she belongs, but they keep knocking her down. They degrade her by making her feel like less than she is, she is human just like everyone else on the farm or in the world, however, is still treated without respect and rights because she is a
Sexism was prevalent in this time period and in this period women are considered lesser than men since they can not do the hard labor that men do on the farm. Although this is true, in today's day and age most would find that belief to be appalling. In the novella however, this is the norm, so people abide by it. Curley’s wife was an exception, she, being Curley’s wife was given special privileges and had more power and say than most of the men on the ranch. This did not change the fact that the workers saw her as a lesser because she was never actually called by her first name ever throughout the entire novella. This is how Steinbeck mainly portrayed sexism from the workers to women. Curley himself shows a good amount of sexism through his actions as a husband. He expects her to stay at the house all day and even broke her records because he found them annoying. Curley’s wife shows her distaste in staying at home with, “‘Think I’m gonna stay in that two-by-four house…’” (Steinbeck 78). The significance of this is the importance that she feels oppressed into solitary confinement and wants to be able to talk to people. Curley does not want her to talk to the other workers because he is worried she will do something with them. Overall in Of Mice and Men Steinbeck makes it clear that sexism should not be accepted due to the fact that Curley’s wife dies at the end of the
Like the girl in the second photo, Curley’s wife feels as if she is not enough for the men on the ranch. America has beauty ideals that many women and men are desperate to achieve because they feel as if the body they have is not good enough. When women and men are not able to obtain that standard beauty ideals, the men and the women think, like Curley’s wife, “What the matter with me?” With the beauty ideals that are apparent around the world and the lack of communication on the ranch, men and women and Curley’s wife feel unwanted and insecure. There is nothing wrong with Curley’s wife or the girl in the photo but people feel the need to oppress others because of their looks or sex. But men and women will not always have the ability to like what the media portrays as “perfect” because sometimes it’s physically impossible. Curley’s wife will not be able to communicate to the men on the ranch because she is female and is a “tart.” Even if Curley’s wife has a small chance of communicating with someone on the ranch, it will never happen because she is dead, just like the leaves on the branches of the trees are
Curley’s wife is treated with very little respect because of the small amount of power she has, which depicts Steinbeck’s lesson that people with less power are treated differently and then go on to treat others unequally, as well. Curley’s wife has a flirty reputation and often goes to talk to the men on the ranch even though she knows she shouldn't be. Shortly after Lennie and George are first introduced to Curley’s wife, George remarks, “Gosh, she was purty.” George is shocked and fiercely tells Lennie, “Don't you even take a look at that bitch. I don't care what she says and what she does. I seen ‘em poison before, but I never seen no piece of jail bait worse than her. You leave her be”(Steinbeck 32). Lennie’s initial reaction of Curley’s wife is not uncommon for the lack of intelligence he has. George’s fierce attitude toward Curley’s wife when he calls her