Throughout one’s life we are defined by a wide multitude of aspects. We are defined by moments, by people, by society, by our parents; this is just a short snippet of the pieces of our lives that help us- and society- to define who we are. The creation of who we are begins to form from the moment we enter the world kicking and screaming, as if we are already trying to stave off the misconceptions that others will form about us. For many people, including myself, the person(s) who raise(d) you have strong roots in the origins of our attitudes, values, and beliefs. During my upbringing my parents were strong influences in how I formed who I am. From an early age they set a prime example of how I knew I would want to conduct myself in the …show more content…
However, before we were able to reach this stage there was enduring the fallout from this newfound disability in our lives. Financially, I witnessed the fallout from the massively incurring hospital bills and the stress of going from a two-income household to one-income. My sister began to help more around the house and I began to entertain myself a lot; my mother became dedicated to making sure my father was comfortable. Reflecting back on this entire experience I am now able to realize how much growing up with a father who was disabled to various extents at different time periods greatly influenced who I am today. I was able to learn and grow from this experience. I learned to help my father when he needed the help, but I also learned that sometimes you must let him do things by himself. This has proven to be an asset by teaching me the tricky skill of knowing when to offer help and when to hold back, by showing me that a disability does not define a person. The human body and brain are astounding in their coping skills and what a person can do to learn to adapt. However, that is not to say that someone should never go above and beyond in helping someone. I believe this experience is when I subconsciously realized I wanted to help people. The massive outpouring of help my family received while coping with this newfound life served as a life lesson in humanity for me. I often think of those moments of help we received when helping others. Sometimes it is
Helping my brother solidified my commitment to helping others. In order to live a worthy life, I will always opt to be a compassionate person, even if it is difficult. I am glad I put my family first, and I will always do the same in the future. I know that medical school and residency will be a long and difficult road, but the only meaningful life I can live is one where I am improving the lives of
My parents influence a large portion of what I define myself as. They provide constant guidance and advice whenever I am around them, as well as when I am away. By taking what I have observed from them and what they say, I can create a lifestyle for myself based upon that knowledge.
What are some of your earliest memories? Are they mainly joyful or painful? Identify one specific early memory and reflect on the significance this early recollection has for you. What value do you see in the Adlerian technique of having group members recall their earliest memories? Can you think of ways to use this technique in groups you may lead?
Despite this, I have still felt the impact and burden that a sudden illness or injury places on a family. When I was in ninth grade, my father was in a severe accident work, turning a seemingly temporary condition into a permanent disability. Our family lost a primary source of income, and financial burdens rested on my mother’s shoulders. To help out with our expenses, my brother and I both got jobs at a local grocery store as soon as we turned 15. I took care of my expenses, and my mother handled the rest. Although I had to balance work, school, extracurriculars, and helping care for my dad, we found a rhythm and took this hardship in stride. Just three years later, my mother was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis after a frightening period of four weeks where doctors could not identify a source for her symptoms. Having two parents with chronic illnesses was and still is a great source of stress and tension in my life, but as I have experienced my family’s financial hardship, I have developed a passion for working with socioeconomically disadvantaged populations. I am better able to empathize with other individuals who are fighting health ailments on their own or caring for a family member. I can show compassion for my future patients as their physician, health educator, and
This semester in English 1302 my perspective on writing has immensely changed. In the previous semester I struggled and nearly passed by a hair because I did not clearly understand the objectives that were given. In this semester, my mistakes had to be fixed. Although it was a process, I finally got around to clearly understanding what the objectives were for English 1302 and how to apply them to my papers for this course.
This single experience is what has led me to the medical field. Since then I have had a strong desire to help others and put their needs before mine, to help those who are incapable of helping themselves. All it took was
In 2013 a coworker of mine was having a life crisis. Her world before she knew it was turned upside down. She injured herself at work and needed back surgery, was starting the process for a divorce, her daughter was rebelling, and her elderly grandmother was ill. She was limited to individuals to talk to and help her through her situation. I tried to provide her with an ear whenever she needed, provided positive encouragement, as well as provide information on programs that may be able to help her.
One women I was helping out, Molly, had alzheimer's disease. Since her admittance into the home a year earlier her family has only made four visits to see her. When I had learned this I felt obligated to be there for her, and to fill the emotional void her absent family left.
“Teamwork makes the DREAM work” is the motto that Raquel Tellez, Service Chief II for the Community Counseling and Supportive Services a Prevention and Early Invention program within Behavioral Health Services (BHS), lives out every day with her team at the clinic and with her approach to client care.
“The only limitations you ever have in life are the ones you put in your mind.” This quote by Napoleon Hill changed the way I have faced various obstacles and is one that I carry in my thoughts. It serves as a vivid reminder not give up at first glance or allow others negativity and limitations to steer my path. Instead, I learned to keep moving forward to surpass even my expectations and achieve what people believe to be impossible. Looking back at all my experiences, the goals I have accomplished and the lessons I have learned otherwise, I realize that many were thought to have been out of reach. Furthermore, I've been put down by others saying it would require more effort than I could provide, discouraging me from even attempting. However, when put through adversity and challenging situations, I was able to commit to a life-changing decision that has altered my life into something I never thought possible.
Self! “Self is an ever changing system of perspectives that are formed and sustained in communication with others and ourselves.” (p.174) As I typed in “self” in the Google search engine what stood out to me the most was a quote by Buddha that goes, “you, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserves your love and affection.” On the first day you are born you, yourself is a individual who is living life to obtain a personal identity with no clue to who or what you may transpire to be. In the Communication Mosaics the 8th edition, it emphasizes the self as being dynamic, and concludes that every individual evolves and change throughout their lifetime. Through my studies of communication I have fondly realized how significant
I am Hoang Le Tri Cuong. I am a scholar who is studying at Saint Joseph's Institution (SJI).
Out of all of the topics that we went over in over the course of the Sister to Sister class, the one that resonated with and still resonates with me the most would have to be the theme of self. This is simply because you cannot even begin to form a sense of community or delve into higher education successfully without a keen awareness of self. This phenomenon is stated beautifully with, “an ongoing commitment to developing the self is paramount to the establishment of an identity that is centered and grounded” (King, T. C., & Ferguson, S. A 2). The ongoing aspects of this are stressed because as people, we are continuously changing, meaning that we need to be constantly in tune with our self and making sure that we are going about life in
When I came out to my mom I was feeling anxious and scared. She took it badly and scheduled an appointment for us to see a therapist to try and fix me . My family is catholic and believes who I am is a sin. I was misunderstood and judged for my actions and embracing who I was. I was still trying to process in a way to find happiness through all this. I wanted to express myself through fashion,hairstyle,sexual orientation. My community that identify myself with is the lgbt group. What connects me to this community is their diversity of sexual orientation,race/ethnicty, age. I believe that the community I am apart of encourages my individuality because I can count on support from this community with guidance. It has helped me to accept myself and to build confidence also to have a relationship with friends,family. For an example, My high school I went to encouraged me to be openly and diverse with the gay community. I developed friendships with people who supported and accepted me for who I am. Another example, I become closer with my cousin who was also gay. She helped me advice of how to communicate with my parents, to not be ashamed of the way I expressed myself, to stand up for myself.
I am now approaching the conclusion of my college career and starting to adjust to work life. This is a period of self-reflection and an attempt to put everything I learned into perspective. During this period of my life, I have been constantly thinking and contemplating my future. I feel very anxious yet nervous during this time while I am adjusting to this new stage of my life. When I was in High school my life was very structured, because I could be very dependent on peoples help and I obviously still lived with my family. When I went to college, I had to break away from that feeling of dependency and start the adjusting to adulthood. In college there was more responsibility and I started to become more independent. This was a crucial step in my life but choosing a career is going to be an even bigger step. It is a bigger step because; I have to start structuring my career goals and family goal for the future. At this moment all I can think about is my career, and how I can I keep improving myself for work life.