Saroo Brierley’s story is incredible to say the least. The persistence he displayed is extremely admirable - a persistence driven by the strong forces of belonging. The human trait of curiosity goes hand in hand with belonging. We naturally want to discover who we are, and for Saroo Brierley that took a bit more effort compared to the average boy. Being torn away from his family stretched his sense of belonging, and later in life made him question that sense. His journey of finding his true identity as a member of the Australian culture, his home culture, finding his identity as a man, building relationships with his new family, maintaining a sense of pride and connection with his Indian culture, is truly inspiring.
Feeling accepted is the grounding of a happy life. When people don’t feel accepted, that is when they become depressed or unhappy. Acceptance comes in many forms; something small like being accepted on to a certain table at lunch time, to something as big as being accepted in the greater community or even feeling accepted in the world. Acceptance can define who you are. If somebody isn’t accepted it can damage their souls and can throw them off the path of finding who they really are. Being accepted by others may seem the most important thing to strive towards, but the most rewarding and most damaging trait of acceptance is accepting yourself. Being comfortable with whom you are; it’s only then that others will really accept you. Acceptance can be an extremely
Throughout the course of the book, A Long Way Home, Saroo Brierley, the author, encounters a series of traumatic experiences that lead to bittersweet moments. Unlike a normal child’s infancy, Saroo was physically and mentally consuming. Through his experience, we are able to get a glimpse of the many struggles and hardships young children live in India daily. His petrifying experiences of living on the streets, Liluah, and Nava Jeevan finally lead to his safe haven of being taken by the Brierley’s.
Saroo’s friends suggest him to research things that will help him figure out where his biological family might be. Saroo then spends the next two years looking for his biological family, drops out of school, and becomes very distant with his family and Lucy. One day Saroo then invites his family to his house to see all the search that he has done looking for his biological family because he had finally found where he first lived. He then travels to Ganesh Talai, where he first lived and saw his mother and other family friends who were so happy to see him.
Everyone can feel, just like you and I, but there's one important question that lingers through the air. Should we really be accepting of other people?
‘An individual’s interaction with others and the world around them can enrich or limit their experience of belonging.’
A common human characteristic is the yearning to feel a sense of belonging through connections and different forms of relationships made in life. A sense of belonging or not belonging can emerge from feeling connected to people and places, whether they have been freely cast there or not. An individual will only feel a true sense of belonging through the understanding of those connections, which are created by experiences and can only come within.
Accept the situation you are in. Accept people for who they are. Accept your past mistakes. Accept your daily pressure. Accept your life.
Jane Harrison’s play Stolen and Garth Davis’ film Lion both explore the experience of being adopted under different circumstances. Stolen is set in Australia and follows the journey of characters, such as Anne, who are from the Stolen Generation and go into foster care, whereas Lion is the story of Saroo, a young Indian boy who is lost and ends up being adopted by a Tasmanian couple. Both characters, Saroo and Anne, struggle with their identities, feeling torn between their biological and adoptive families. However, they both come to accept and love their families after going on a journey to understand who they are and where they’ve come from.
"To feel a sense of belonging, you need to accept yourself and be accepted by others."
"Character, in the long run, is the decisive factor in the life of an individual and of nations alike." Theodore Roosevelt. Students should demonstrate scholarship, leadership, service, citizenship, and character because of three reasons. One, if students demonstrate these qualities they are more likely to get better grades and get reprimanded less. Another, without these traits, a student would have far less opportunities in the future. Finally, as students grow they will gain much more wisdom if they allow themselves to work on demonstrating these characteristics. Overall, these qualities are very important in the present, and in the future.
A sense of belonging is not only a want, but a necessity for humans. It is described on “Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs”, as feeling loved and accepted in the social world that we live in. Every individual has personal needs that reflect their paradigm of the world they live in. Some display selflessness, through being happy when others are happy. Others will go the extra mile to present their love and desire for another. While a person may appear happy, they may also be acting. Pretending to be someone is an expression of self doubt, and fear of not being accepted. There are numerous ways a person goes about feeling loved and accepted in their environments, and they vary based on self image and which needs they have prioritized.
In the book by Carl Rogers, A Way of Being, Rogers describes his life in the way he sees it as an older gentleman in his seventies. In the book Rogers discusses the changes he sees that he has made throughout the duration of his life. The book written by Rogers, as he describes it is not a set down written book in the likes of an autobiography, but is rather a series of papers which he has written and has linked together. Rogers breaks his book into four parts.
Especially age. In Ray Bradbury’s novel, Something Wicked This Way Comes, shows the importance of accepting your age no matter what. Even if learning to accept can be hard, by accepting yourself can lead to liking yourself better. In the story both Jim and Mr. Halloway learned to accept their age through a difficult time. They also learned that the people around them love them for who they are, so they should love themselves too. For a person to just accept themselves can lead to that person being happier throughout
Acceptance is trusting, having confidence, and be welcoming of others. Being able to accept people with an open mind may be difficult at times but depending on our experience and the way we have come to be it can sometimes be very natural. In the three texts, “What, of This Goldfish Would You Wish”, “The Lottery”, and “American Flag Stands for Tolerance,” the author’s focus on the way we interact and relate with others. This quote, “We as human beings, must be willing to accept people who are different from ourselves” said by Barbara Jordan, demonstrates how everyone should be open and willing to accept those who are different and not to discriminate against others.
Personally, “The Sanctuary of School” offers the strongest conflict. Namely, the conflict of Man v. Society, because troubled children like Lynda Barry contend with those who think before and after school programs are unimportant.
It is common knowledge that life is supposed to be hard and you are going to meet people that don’t like you for you being yourself. Additionally, my parents would always say this and repeat it to me in order to get me to understand and accept it. The thing is, it was hard accepting that. For instance, during sixth and seventh grade, I cared a lot of what other people thought of me. I wanted it everyone to think I was cool and, most importantly, I wanted to make many long-lasting friendships. However, this