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SCARF Model And Non-Violent Communication

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Every personality has something inherently good in it but there are some terrible facts too and the self-development tools like SCARF model and Non-Violent Communications describe techniques to overcome these issues and live like an effective leader.
ESFJ personality type is my personality. The first and foremost thing I have in me is in my thinking process when a bad situation happens my reactions are towards studying it and knowing what was the reason it happened and next step is I do which I can follow to make the situation better. I participate in every social activity and try always to see good out of it. I process the information I get and study and understand them deeply. I’m a big observer and learner, I learn from my errors, and try …show more content…

I’m these days trying to more focused on positive attitude and better communications.

Describe how these two tools can help you become leader:
Being an extrovert I’m frank in quick expressions, eg; I try hard to make others happy and expect to get good feedback, when people nag, provide negative feedbacks or I feel they are not happy, its hurts me and I becomes sad. I have learned that due to someone’s bad response if I’m going to react on it, how bad effects it haves on me and on others instead of understanding the situation and approaching through positive communications helps makes a good environment.
Panicking reduces problem-solving mechanism in the brain and we are more tend towards mistakes rather relaxing opens problem-solving mechanism.

“When people act outside of expectations placed on them by family or surroundings, it’s often met with disapproval. In other instances, it may be that they’re expressing their personality preferences in a less-developed way, because they have not been allowed to fully explore their own natural preferences.”( How Personality Type Influences Leadership

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