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Rita Dove

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This poem dramatizes the conflict between solitude and responsibilities. Rita Dove illustrates the life of a women who feels trapped because of her role as a mother and wife. First, the speaker directly and briefly, gives the notion of solitude within the mother: “Wanted a little room for thinking”(1). But it is quickly over turned by the reality of the mess she has to clean up. “But she saw diapers steaming on the line” (2). It seems that while her husband’s at work she plays the typical stay-at-home mother. We see the mother continuously changing diapers and her days are monotonous. She is unable to seek the excitement she ever so desires. She sits alone outside thinking freely while observing nature for only a brief moment, while her children …show more content…

The rhyme scheme of Rita Doves’ poem is free verse. Dove is very descriptive and imaginative while creating a vivd setting. She grew up during the height of the baby boomers and the typical “American Family”. She was exposed to that norm of the father/husband wiring and the mother/wife staying at home cooking, cleaning and taking care of the children. The authors experiences from that rlated and possibly influenced her writing of such a unique poem. Rita offers a very doleful and apathetic depiction of the mood, seemingly trying to relate to the feeling of exhaustion or maybe depression. In the line “she would open her eyes/and think of a place that was hers/for an hour”(18), she can only conjure one brief hour of contentment.
The poem immediately begins with the mother searching for solitude. “She wanted a little room for thinking”(1). The mother has no place or time for herself, any time she can obtain suddenly becomes a sign of release. This line lays down the foundation for how the reader is to characterize the mother. Applying words such as “slumped” and lugged” (3) depicts the idea of motherhood being a burden. This allows the reader to feel the exhaustion of the mother and begin to to make the assumption that the mother is indeed tired of her life, at this point in …show more content…

“She had an hour, at best, before Liza appeared” (12). The reader can argue that Liza wants her mothers undivided attention. Liza is upset that her mother is not at her side when she wakes. “And what was mother doing/ Out back with the field mice? Why” (13). The mother is not allowed any time for herself, to do what she wants to do. The mother then describes sex with who must be the father of the children. It sounds as if the sex is unwanted because the author uses words such as “lurched”(18). Also the mother, although physically present, is not psychologically. “She would open her eyes/and think of a place that was hers/for an hour where/she was nothing/pure nothing, in the middle of the day” (18). The audience can infer that the mother enters into a place that she build, as referenced previously. It represents her place of solitude and escape. Perhaps throughout all the tedious and repetitive house work and baby sitting, the mother ironically finds solitude within the very arms of the man she might believe condemned her to such a mundane

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