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Reflection Paper

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I was reading a book one day and I read the statement “If my life is going to mean anything, I have to live it myself” (The Lightning Thief, 2005). I knew I had to change to become a better version of myself. Times got better in high school. I learned that I deserved to be happy and loved. I realized that everyone is different and that is what makes us awesome. I learned to love myself despite my flaws. Sometimes, even now I have relapses and I know now what to do and how to get through them. When I came to Northwestern is when I finally got professional help through the counseling service here at the school. I did not let my family know and I only briefly let my best friend know about it. The session that I had reaffirmed in me that I had to do something in my life to make a difference, but first, I had to teach myself to take care of me before I helped others. I am so proud of how far I have come, and I am excited to see myself go further than I could ever imagine for myself. “Don't ever discount the wonder of your tears. They can be healing waters and a stream of joy. Sometimes they are the best words the heart can speak” (The Shack, 2007). This statement is so beneficial when it comes to how I explain myself. Sometimes people see weakness in crying but I see strength. I cannot count how many times I have cried because I found myself caring too much. When I found this in the book, it made me smile because sometimes I am not the best at words. I know now that tears

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