Reflection Of My Personal Essay : My Philosophy Of Friendship

Jealousy in Characters Authors of stories can manipulate the emotions of their characters to express meaning. Jealousy is one that is often used to bring out the negative aspects in the characters or in life in general. Jealousy is a powerful emotion to use and implement because it is something the reader can connect to. If an author is able to connect to a reader in that way it makes the message of his story all the more powerful. John Knowles, the author of A Separate Peace, a popular book with deep meaning, demonstrates that talent when he illustrates jealousy and its dire effects in his character, Gene Forrester.

Jealousy can be defined as the resentment of a person or individual due to their successes or advantages. As human beings we are inherently created with this quality, but it is when we choose to indulge it, that it results in negative consequences. Jealousy is an extremely strong emotion, often beyond our control. In the short stories “Marigolds” by Eugenia Collier and “The Necklace” by Guy de Maupassant, the two authors clearly portray the negative effects that jealousy can have on one’s life.

Jealousy is an emotion very evident in our society. We often compare ourselves to others, noticing what they have that we do not, most commonly in terms of money or looks. Even those close to us spark our jealousy, maybe a friend or sibling; although most wouldn't admit the fact. Author John Knowles touches on this subject in his first published novel A Separate Peace. Through the voice of Gene, Knowles uses figurative language in a self-deprecating tone to show jealousy, as evident in the passage, “The second wave, as it tore toward the beach with me, spewed me a little ahead of it, encroaching rapidly; suddenly it was immeasurably bigger than I was, it rushed me from the control of gravity and took control of me itself; the wave threw me

First, jealousy can be seen in most friendships. Gene is jealous of Finny because of his ability to talk his way out of his predicaments. Gene thinks, “I was beginning to see that Phineas could get away with anything. I couldn’t help envying him a little, which was perfectly normal” (18). Gene is jealous enough of Finny’s charisma that he would end up hurting him. Jealousy is one of the ways that hurts people’s friendships. So, jealousy is a normal part of friendship, which can be seen in A Separate Peace.

Jealousy is wanting what you don’t or can’t have, it is a dark emotion that causes people to act different ways. Gene is jealous of athletic ability. “Was he trying to impress me or something? Not tell

In Sula, Toni Morrison questions what true friendship is by putting Nel Wright and Sula Peace’s friendship to the test. Morrison tests the phrase “opposites attract” in this novel. Nel and Sula have two different personalities yet they are able to compliment each other. They are opposites in the way that they relate to other people, and to the world around them. Nel is rational and balanced; she gets married and gives in to conformity and the town’s expectations. Sula is an irrational and transient character. She follows her immediate passions, completely care free of the feelings other people might have about her. To Nel, Sula’s return to Medallion is like “getting the use of an eye back, having a cataract

Some people know jealousy as "green envy." Some people just know it as plain old jealousy, but everyone knows jealousy and the pain it can cause. Jealousy is a nasty emotion, causing nice people to act mean, calm people to act rash, and even the steadiest of tempers to rise. It lashes out with harsh actions and words, hurting many innocent victims. Jealousy causes people to act in abnormal ways, devious ways of hatred and deception, ways that most people would not normally act. Ultimately, jealousy is caused by a certain insecurity that a person has. This insecurity comes from not having what you desire, allowing you to be jealous of those who have it. Three main things that cause insecurity

I'm sure you have not only heard, but also used the famous phrase "opposites attract." The statement stands true not only in physics and chemistry, but also in relationships and friendships. We tend to be attracted to people with personalities that differ from ours, so life would be more interesting, and desire the opposite of what we have. A perfect example of this, is Sula and Nel, best friends from Toni Morrison's novel, "Sula", where the conventional ideas of good and evil are turned upside down. The two girls are like opposite sides of a magnet, strongly attracted toward one another and useless when split apart. Life puts their friendship to the test by toying with love and sex, life and death, and good and evil, eventually

Being jealous is the feeling envious of someone’s achievements or advantages. In A Separate Peace by John Knowles, the character Gene Forrester is very jealous of his best friend Finny. From the beginning of the book Gene always admits he is jealous of him, but Phineas never seems to notice how Gene is feeling. It is hard to admit jealousy but the way Knowles does it helps us realize that jealousy is a normal part of life.

Jealousy is just another part of everyday life. As shown in Bobbie Ann Mason's "Being Country", it's not always easy to look at the bright side. For example, when Mason's family was eating dinner, she called it "fuel for work". Instead of looking to the negative side, she could've been grateful that she had food. Rather than looking at the positive side, we as humans like to generate an invalidating conclusion from unfortunate events in our lives to people that seem more fortunate. Envy and desire were two feelings that I experienced while growing up. Accepting these feelings weren't hard, turning them into ambitions were.

Jealousy is something that has always and will continue to plague mankind. In the myth of Hainuwele, she is referred to as a nubile maiden. Nubile means sexually attractive. Hainuwele was not only beautiful, but she was desired and lusted after by men. Any woman in any culture that is beautiful or desired will be disliked or even hated by someone whether it is known or unknown. Envy along with greed, gluttony, lust, pride, anger, and sloth are deemed as the Cardinal sins. When a woman is jealous, it is normally because the other woman has

Imagine your sole confidante, childhood playmate, personal comedian and physiologist disclosing your secrets to a stranger. Unfortunately, this stranger happens to be the person who enforce a form of punishment for the actions that were once a secret. Furthermore, this confidante is considered your friend. Does an instance of this friend disclosing your secret of immoral activities to a person of authority violate the success of the friendship? In fact, this act is not a violation of the laws of friendship. The ideas of friendship are subjective, and thus where you might think your friend’s actions are unjust, your friend is actually looking out for your best interest and security. Also, a good friend would not desire

On the other side, jealousy is something broad in life that we feel and it can come in various forms. For example jealousy about someone we love. Love and jealousy are connected to each other. In fact jealousy is an emotional response for an experienced threat of an important relationship. When people are jealous they are able to do anything, in the negative form. When people become angry they can also

Jealousy is described as someone who is feeling or showing envy of someone because of their achievements and advantages. Jealousy plays a major role in Shakespeare’s play Othello. There are many instances throughout the play that show jealousy between the characters. Throughout the play, jealousy is used for destructive purposes only. I believe that Iago longed to get revenge on Othello for previous issues. This only results in a long line of accusations and disputes between the characters in Othello.

When you were still in the kindergarten, friends were the people who romped about with you, played mischievous tricks upon everyone. When you were getting bigger, perhaps at primary school, friends were the people who helped you in your homework, who sung with you at the school choir. Had you forgotten them? Had you betrayed them? Are you a good friend to your friends? A true friend would always tell you the truth, be you best partner when you need him, most of all, support you.