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Pullman's Coming-Of-Age

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Via Pullman’s Coming-of-Age: The concept of coming-of-age requires reflection on the essence of maturity. Wonder, written by R.J. Palacio, encapsulates this and the hardships and triumphs of August, a vulnerable kid born with severe facial deformities who experiences a whirlwind of emotions when he first attends school. Via Pullman has always been known solely as ‘August’s sister’ and is brutally neglected by her family as August constantly requires more attention. Via is accustomed to fixing her disputes regardless of how long it takes; exerting copious amounts of effort and struggling with identity and friendship, with no foreseeable resolutions. However, through adversity, Via ‘comes-of-age’ throughout the novel showcasing themes of identity, …show more content…

However, even after Miranda ignored and deceived her, she found it in her heart to forgive. Via’s forgiveness and friendship were epitomised after the play when she noticed Miranda’s genuine remorse and personal struggles. She absolved Miranda, cultivating a more meaningful relationship. “‘You’re definitely coming,’ she said, smiling her old smile at me.for the very first time in a very, very long time, I felt absolutely happy’ (p.248). Though Miranda deluded Via, she had the integrity to reconnect with her when she was drowning in guilt, demonstrating capacity to overcome her struggles and the strength of her friendship. These experiences deepened her friendships, and enhanced her self-confidence, thus fostering a new sense of belonging. This demonstrates how Via ‘came-of-age’, signifying the strength of her friendships and forgiveness even when she had been victimised. As the novel progressed, Via's kindness blossomed as she showcased remarkable compassion and empathy. Via originally shielded August, placing his needs above her own. However, Via realised that constantly cushioning him would ultimately hinder his growth and understanding of …show more content…

We need to let him, help him, make him grow up’ (p.90). Via consistently prioritised the wellbeing of others over her own. This is embodied in her unwavering support for August and her understanding of his needs. As Via navigated adolescence, she continued to bloom in her empathy and kindness. Through her ‘coming-of-age’, Via personified a compassionate character, demonstrating resilience in the face of her obstacles. Despite experiencing challenges, Via persevered to retain and build her identity. Initially, Via’s identity was defined and limited by her family dynamics. Feeling engulfed by August’s shadow, she grappled to understand who she was. As the novel unfolds, Via questions her identity. However, in the end, she gets recognised by her family, helping her feel comfortable in who she is. ‘Mom and Dad would always say I was the most understanding little girl in the world. I don’t know about that, just that I understood there was no point in complaining.I’m always going to be the sister of a kid with a birth defect; that’s not the issue. I just don’t always want to be defined that way’ (p.82-91). Despite feeling invisible and overshadowed, Via overcame the challenges of adolescence and grew more confident in her

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