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Psychology: How Rejection Affects The Brain

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I agreed with much of the Fisher (2008) video presentation. I thought about the times I was rejected by someone that I really loved, and the times I had to reject someone I loved. Both are difficult and both caused different reactions to me. Fisher (2008) said that love causes a chemical reaction in the brain, and this explains why many people can’t help but to fall in love with some of the people that they do. I learned from Fisher (2008) that the brain is effected in three different places when someone is rejected or “dumped” by the person they love. I never knew that there was actual science to backup that rejection actually effects the brain the way that it does. I know from my own experiences how rejection affected me, it felt like I was dying a sickness that completely paralyzed me. It helped me accept that no matter how tough you may think you are love can …show more content…

Fisher (2008) said the rejection we experience in love can be compared to what someone addicted to drugs goes through. The Ackerman (2012) article stated similar things about love and how it affects the brain and used a study conducted in U.C.L.A to support how rejection affects the brain. The study concluded that same areas of the brain that register physical pain are active when someone is “dumped” or rejected by the person they love. Like a broken arm it hurts but the only problem is there is no physical marks or broken bones to show why you are feeling the pain as if you had broken a bone. Unlike the Redcay (2013) video, she presented love as something you almost can control if you understand yourself and what you want in life. My initial reaction to her was she was very cautious about love and talks about finding love and the “right man” as if she was trying to buy a car. Redcay (2013) took the view of relationships from a woman’s perspective, as she should because she is a woman, but she

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