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Problems Faced With Domestic Abuse

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Duyen Ma
College English
March 8th, 2015
Trouble in Paradise: Stages Of Domestic Abuse One of the most taboo threats to relationships in the 21st century is not infidelity or financial problems, but domestic abuse. Domestic abuse is inflicting mental or physical harm to your spouse, and contrary to popular belief men are also victims of domestic abuse. According to the organization Safe Horizon “Men are victims of nearly 3 million physical assaults”(safe) and “1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence during her lifetime” (safe), which is a very alarming statistic. Some people might think that these statistics are a bit far-fetched because of how rarely you witness acts of domestic abuse in the public eye and also because people …show more content…

Identifying an abuser is not as obvious as you may think because abusers are master manipulators, and their true personality is hidden behind a mask of deceit and allure. One sign that someone might be an abuser is if they show overly jealous behavior. Actions of a jealous abuser include accessing the victims social media without consent, isolating them from their love one, and constant accusations of infidelity. “The abuser will say that jealousy is a sign of love and concern when in fact it has nothing to do with love. Jealousy is a sign of possessiveness, insecurity, and lack of trust.” ( characteristics of). Another warning sign of an abusive person is if they try to have control over everything, including the victim’s life. Abusers like to be in control of everything and think that their way is the best way, and will not compromise no matter what. According to Web M.D, , abusers like to control every aspect of the victims including their money. “Abusers seek to limit your options, including your financial ability to leave. They may encourage you to not work at all, or try to cause trouble for you at work”. Abusers do this so the victim will be financially dependent on them and it makes it harder for the victim to leave. Being able to identify these signs early on are extremely important because it could stop domestic violence before it gets too far and end the victims life. Independence, a noun often related to positive

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