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Philosopher's Mail By Søren Kierkegaard

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I came across a tweet from Philosopher’s Mail by Søren Kierkegaard “The most common form of despair is not being who you are.” (Philosophers’ Mail, 2014) This passage is exactly spot-on about the concept of self-betrayal. It is described as an act contrary to what one feels one should do for another. (The Arbinger Institute, January 11, 2010, p. 67). Self-betrayal becomes a breach of trust to oneself, and it comes in several guises and degree. In one way or the other, we tolerate being consumed in the act of self-betrayal. I must acknowledge that it is rather challenging mirroring on the incidents in my life concerning self-betrayal. We tend to find one thousand and one excuse to prove the way we behave, the reasons for not being honest …show more content…

77) We oftentimes ignore the altruistic inner voice in us. As an alternative, we opt to lie to ourselves, therefore, in doing so; it makes our lives tougher than it has to be. With self-betrayal we resisted honoring the sense in the first place, so we become unwittingly devoted more to self- protection and justification (The Arbinger Institute, January 11, 2010) to our actions than about getting results …show more content…

In this case, it was my son’s fault for coming in late. I became too absorbed of my virtue, and I simply exaggerated it, which ended with the kind of response that validates my self-betrayal. I justified that I was mainly concerned about his security and nothing but. In doing so, I perceived myself as a good mother and a responsible one at that. Finally, I cannot overlook the blame game in the situation. Consequently, I identified my son as the one at fault, and I would not acknowledge any wrongdoing with my behavior. (The Arbinger Institute, January 11,

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