How much time do people spend on a cell phone or computer daily? What percentage of that time is consumed doing things other than scrolling through Instagram, twitter, and Facebook feeds or snap chatting peers? Seventy three percent of wired teens use social media websites (CNN). We live in a society where social media dominates a vast majority of our life. Lapointe Lapointe, through a relatable series of emotional developments, targets teens and families caught up in social media to clearly inform them about the dangers of tech-based social apps and the vitality of monitoring what we say, do and like. Our actions, although they may seem immensely minuscule, have large implications. By using scare tactics, Lapointe’s argument becomes not …show more content…
The reason Lapointe is able to gain the audiences attention is because of her superb use of emotional persuasion. Adding on to her many eloquent ideas, through pathos, Lapointe confirms, “Social media is the intoxicatingly enticing world of relational connection that has invaded our culture”(Lapointe Lapointe). Therefore, It is pivotal that in a world that is dominated by technology that individuals are able to create a happy medium and learn to be “normal” people. People who seek outside connections, friendships, and dialogue. Individuals still existed and still had friends before they were referred to by their Instagram handles and snapchat names. When individuals get so caught up about how many likes they receive on a photo, they are showing high levels of superficial connections and unrealistically bonding over impractical values, for example, celebrity crushes. Once an individual embarks on such a track it is very difficult to backtrack and learn how to formally connect with people, this is something which terrifies many people. Through an emotional appeal, Lapointe compares this to eating habits as she states, “…like having a dessert first- you are no longer interested in the healthy meal that would be face-to-face interactions with the key people in your life”(Lapointe Lapointe). In our world, people enjoy taking the easy
With the advent of the internet, one of powerful industries in society was born: social media. Although companies like Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, YikYak and others differ in purposes, each share one major purpose with the rest: human connection; whether it is for entertainment or commercial purposes, for superficial communication or deep, the human race is all about connection between individuals. A sociologist, Brene Brown, once reaffirmed this, asserting, that the fundamental design of humanity was for intimacy and connection. When someone feels shame it is the fear that one is unworthy of such connection. Because of this versatility, drawing emotional appeals and personal connections can strongly support logic and
4: We are slowly turning into slaves of technology; setting our mindsets into shortcuts, to abbreviations, to initials, to emojis, to GIFs, to stickers, and to memes.
A concerned expression emerges upon her face as the constant beeping and buzzing from the neighboring room drifts into her ears. Knowing her obligation as a parent, she rises from her bed and heads toward the room of the noises. When she enters the room, she finds herself facing a disaster; his head is tilted forward, his eyes are fixed on the screen of his iPhone, his fingers are moving rapidly, and all of his attention is wrapped around nothing else but the activity he’s doing on his iPhone. The disaster that appears before her is the teenager of modern day. In the article, “Antisocial Networking?,” the author, Hilary Stout, claims that social media is inimical to adolescents due to the fact that youngsters who use it become less interested
In “The Limits of Friendship” by Maria Konnikova, social media has significantly changed the way we interact with friends and family. Everybody thinks that using social media is the best way to talk to friends and family, however, in my opinion, they are wrong because it doesn’t give you the face-to-face connections we need as humans for social interaction. On the other hand, the great thing about using social media is you can connect with more people, but in a superficial kind of way. Therefore, we do not get the face-to-face interactions with our friends and family. We, the people that are addicted to social media, learn that without face-to-face conversations we wouldn’t have a normal “social” life outside of social media. The question
In the article, Faux Friendship, William Deresiewicz explores how friendship between individuals have evolved in modern life. Nowadays, the social media such as Facebook, Twitter, and MySpace turn the idea of friendship into universal friendship, in which an individual become a friend with everyone. Also, he pointed that the modern friendship became a form of distraction, “If we have 768 “friends”, in what sense do we have any? Facebook isn’t the whole of contemporary friendship, but it sure looks a lot like its future. Yet Facebook – and MySpace, and Twitter, and whatever we’re stampeding for next – are just the latest stages of a long attenuation.” (Deresiewicz 435).
The epitome of a Good Life is the strong relationships humans are able to construct over time, but this can be affected by social media. Even though it connects individuals around the globe, social media can have a devastating effect on the establishment of communication in solid relationships. In Robert Waldinger’s “What makes a Good Life,” TED talk, he believes strong relationships are the framework of achieving a good life. Dr. Waldinger debates that the development of inter-social relationships could highly influence our life in a healthy manner, more than wealth and career success could. The need for relationships is seen through: (a) the Harvard Study, and (b) a healthy lifestyle. Clive Thompson’s article, “A Brave New World: I’m so Totally Digitally Close to You,” discusses how social media has revolutionized the way our community interacts. Instead of having one-to-one interaction with someone in person, now with just a “tweet” or “DM” a person easily contacts another person. He argues that the advancements of technology have led to our society developing an endless addiction to
In Life is Friends, Martinet, an author known for her knowledge on the art of mingling, justifies the reason for why connecting with others in person is lost and declares that “All too many people make the mistake of looking for friends who can further their career or their social standing” (Martinet). The public cares too much about their status in society and the way that people view them. Humans attempt to depict themselves in a way that makes them appear “cool” or “fit in” with everyone else. Technology is just one outlet that people constantly use to paint a picture of themselves for the rest of the world to see. While in real life, a person may not even closely resemble their social media profile. Therefore, it is often tricky for those that care about their status to have a natural conversation with others for fear of not portraying themselves accurately. Face to face conversations are also on the decline because people care too much about their social standing and would prefer to only talk to friends that can improve
In the novel, the greater focus is on exploration and developments in technology which do exist in modern society. Taking the previous statement into consideration, this idea can be relayed back the way people use the internet. When posting on social media, many people’s first thought when they post a picture, tweet, or status is how their posts will make their followers feel. The ultimate goal for many is to showcase their lifestyle; this is not necessarily to make others envious, even though this is sometimes the case, but to overcompensate for the things in their lives that are not going as they wish they were. The best way to represent this point is in remembering “how important it is to show everyone the fun you’re having through pictures” in today’s age (Why Social Media is Destroying Out Social Skills). With this being the most important motive in the minds of many, social skills are ruined as individuals find it more necessary to be flashy than happy. Because of how easy it is to access each other’s lives, it is very tempting for one to feel discouraged or intimidated by another’s lifestyle. As a result of that, social platforms, especially those like Instagram, have become a place where people seem to compete to see who has the most
Thesis: Stay in the present moment, don’t let yourself believe you’re going to forget a memory because you didn’t document it through social media.
Not only is most of the world on social media, but many of the users are addicted to it. Checking social media has become a habit and part of many people’s daily routines, especially teens. Most studies are based around teens, because they are the most frequent users. In fact of the ninety-five percentage of teenagers that are on the internet, eighty-five percent of them are on social media (Marwick and Boyd 1). With the colossal amount of new and ignorant users, there is bound to be a plethora of issues to surface. This brings a large factor of immaturity to the table, increasing the intensity of all issues. Wray Herbert, a journalist of psychological science, writes in his blog about the teenage brain that adolescents “lack judgment and the ability to weigh future consequences” (1). This basically means that they perform actions based on impulsivity, without thinking how it will affect themselves and others involved. Teenagers have a hard time controlling this behavior because they are at a time in their lives where they make mistakes and have to learn from them. The easy fix would be to just delete all your accounts, right? That is the theory that many people think is the answer; however, they are wrong and it can be easily disproved.
People nowadays spend more time in technology more than the time with their families and their friends. Deresiewicz proclaims “It seems inevitable that once we decided to become friends with everyone, we would forget how to be friends with anyone” (Deresiewicz 373). What Deresiewicz is trying to say is that people have more friends in social media network more than in their real life. Moreover, he is trying to say that people are forgetting how to make friends in their life. For example, people should talk and share knowledge and experiences instead of using phones in a dinner. More important, the new generation is facing more dangerous than the one before, and about this case, Turkle said, “Some children who write narratives for their screen avatars may grow up with too little experience of how to share their real feelings with other people” (Turkle 327). So, she explains how children could be introvert and never express and explore in real life if they overuse
Is your internet speed slow? Not only that, are you paying a high price for it? Have you ever wondered why?
“We don’t have a choice on whether we do social media, the question is how we do it” (Qualman, n.d). According to Merrain Webster 1828, “social media is form of electronic communication (such as websites for social networking and microblogging) through which users create online communities to share information, ideas, personal messaging, and other online (such as video). Technology has involved into something that everyone can utilize effectively just by the swipe of finger or by pressing a single button. We don’t have to go the post office for hand written letter from families and friends abroad, but we can get them through simply opening a chat box online. However, social media has become the addiction to many young people today and even adults alike. We eat with your phones. We study and communicate with others on your various devices. We even go into the bathroom with our devices to ensure that we don’t miss a tweet, recent Instagram post or a WhatsApp message.
Relationships among friends are vastly different from what it used to be, and social media plays a large role in it. Whenever friends and families go out for social outings, faces are always glued to phone screens, busy letting other friends know what we are doing, and creating a distance between the friends that are actually there. “When friends become fans, what happens to intimacy?” (Orenstein 253). When friends are busy liking photos and retweeting what they just ate, it is not the same intimacy as actually sharing the moment with them. When all the attention is focused on one little screen, socializing isn’t the same as it used to be five, ten years ago. The same closeness friends receive when they share jokes are dissipating in the air slowly, the intimacy is vanishing. “On Twitter or Facebook you’re trying to express something real about who you
James Madison, the father of the constitution, created the first amendment to protect the rights of the citizens by allowing them to have their freedom of speech. People finally had a chance to express their thoughts on the government without having the fear of being arrested. But how has the use of this gift of freedom change over time? Before, freedom of speech has been used only by the press to get the news out in the world, informing everyone the truth of what is occurring around them. Now thanks to the invention of social media, anyone, anywhere could get their thoughts out on the internet where anybody could seen them. Social Media is the technology that has been growing rapidly since 1999. Starting out as a way for people to communicate with others, Social Media has become as an addiction for people as teens with their phones. People started expressing their views on this world in the name of freedom of speech, not knowing the limits to where they should stop. What many social media users don’t realize, is that they are allowed to share their thoughts and beliefs, but should be aware that they might be hurting others out there who don’t view something in a similar way. The article, “Social Media and Free Speech, The Good, The Bad and The Ugly,” states that, “when they express these more extreme views, or attack other people, that offense can be taken…”(2) Through social media people are starting to attack one another, cause their victims to go into a thick fog of