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Personal Narrative: The Quintessential Black Man

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The Quintessential Black Man: I am Far From Perfect With my recent launch of the Black Men Lead Initiative, it may easy for some to postulate that I have it all together as a black man. It might be part of a natural and logical progression to establish the belief that I have excelled in the area of being a strong, engaged and infallible black man. However, your speculations and assumptions would be inaccurate. Although I consider myself to be the quintessential black man, I am far from perfect. I have failed on many occasions, by the world’s standard of failure. I decided to pen this article to both, black men and black women, for the purpose of elucidating the core foundation of my passion for black men to rise up and lead. I have always …show more content…

I am far from being the perfect father. I have had many moments in which I could have done better, but rather than allow myself to be defined by those moments, I continue to work at being a father despite the fact that most of my progeny are now adults. Instead of focusing on my perceived failure as a father, I focus on the relationship that I have with my children now. I rally at the thought of the fact that I am the first person called when they become engaged in a moment that they may feel is too big for them. No, I am not perfect, but I am the quintessential black man …show more content…

Yet, I have worked tirelessly to build a relationship with my ex that ensures her that though our marriage has ended, my commitment to her security has not. While I chose to walk away, I have not abandoned her. While this may threaten the person that chooses to seek a life with me, I stand firmly, because black men must learn to live up the responsibilities they create. It is time that we stop walking away from the challenges in our life, pushing the reboot button, because they are uncomfortable and challenging. It is time that we stand up and meet those challenges head on. We are the standard bearers for the young black men who will follow us, and we must teach them the importance of meeting their individual

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