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Personal Narrative Reflection Paper

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My second year of university was BUSY!

In addition to taking a full course load, I also had jobs on campus and was volunteering. Plus, I had to fit in my workout regime, social time, ‘me’ time, and best of all, sleep. And I was able to do all of that, while maintaining my all-A transcript.

When my friends ask me how I managed to pull that off, most of the time I would tell them the truth, which is “I really don’t know”. But there was a lot of careful consideration that went into basically my every action so that I could stay on top of all of my responsibilities.

There’s one key thing that I did that made my success possible: PRIORITIZE.

I know, it seems like a lame word that your parents use against you when they think …show more content…

Essentially, my job was to be there for all of the first years, whether they needed advice, someone to talk/cry to, or someone to be a friend and go to the dining hall/library/gym with. Not a bad gig at all. But, this meant that the majority of the times that most would consider free time, I was basically ‘on-call’. We were supposed to have our doors open and phones on basically anytime we were in the building in case someone needed us. So, unless I had some school related crises (AKA the millions of times I left papers till the last minute), my time belonged to the first years. When I took the job, I knew that was the commitment I was making.

And honestly, I loved the job. I loved it so much that I’m doing it again my third year, but as a full-blown RA this time. There was also only a few times that my top two priorities conflicted together, such as a frosh (first year) wanting to vent to someone, but I had a paper due in an hour.

PRIORITY THREE:

The next priority for me was my social life. This sort of mixed in with being a member of residence staff, as I was friends with a lot of my frosh, so I was able to kill two birds with one stone. But, making time for my boyfriend, my friends who didn’t live on my floor, and my friends who didn’t even go to my school was also very important to me. Some friends I only saw for dinner once every few weeks, others it was a few times a week. I saw my boyfriend every day,

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