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Personal Narrative: My Interview With R. C.

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My interview with R.C. was a very enlightening experience. I enjoyed speaking with her and hearing about her life. R.C. spoke about band trips, playing in her grandparent’s plant nursery and eating big Sunday dinners with her entire family every week. Not having grown up with that and seeing the happiness on her face, it made me wish I had been a part of that lifestyle. My own mother did grow up with a large family and this similarity caused me to wonder how my own mother would perceive her life review when her time comes.
The most significant part of the interview was how we have shared similar struggles. R.C.’s husband was away from home a lot for work on the railroad while she raised their daughter, mine has also been away from home a lot due to work while I raised my son. There is a certain bond that is built when two people know the language of one struggle. …show more content…

felt regarding her daughter’s failed marriages. I would not have thought a parent would carry this burden if it was not their doing that caused the marriage to fail. R.C. also spoke of her grandchildren and how they handled the divorce of their parents and subsequent boyfriends of the mother. The sadness was very apparent on R.C.’s face when she spoke about her youngest grandson coming to her house early in the morning to get away from the fighting between the mother and a boyfriend.
After my interview with R.C. I do not foresee changing how I interact with the elderly, much. I have always enjoyed listening to their stories. One of the downsides of my job is that I do not have the time to listen to patients as I am trying to get to the next one. What I would like to see change is the recognition of an elderly patient that is going through a life review. This person could use a friendly ear to listen as they work through anything they feel is unresolved, so they may move on into ego integrity and feel that sense of

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