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Personal Narrative: My First Tattoos

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“Hold back the day, it’s darkest before the dawn.”

I’ve always felt like my story involves taking two steps forward and three steps back. Like I am always heading towards the Promised Land, and I am never going to get there. Because of this, getting tattoos has always been an outlet and a healing process for me. The first tattoo I got was the Chinese symbol for love. I was 16 at the time, and it was a reminder that I always wanted to have love in my life.

It was another two years before I got my next tattoos, and this time they took on a different meaning. I was 17 when the Black Saturday fires happened, and I lived right in the middle of where two fires converged. My family couldn’t get out that night; we were stuck up there. My mum, dad, brother and I tried to escape in our car, but we were trapped. We sat there on the side of the road, and we couldn’t get out. We tried to run, but we couldn’t; we watched the fire front come over the top of the car. …show more content…

We saw a lot of things that night that were pretty hard to deal with, but I still had this sense of hope the whole time. I got the date for Black Saturday tattooed on the back of my arm after that day. The reason it is there is because it’s behind me, but I’ll never forget it either.

I have to honour what has happened, which is why I have that tattoo. I think that was a way for me to deal with it, but I still supressed a lot of emotions over it, and following that I began to spiral downhill.

Soon afterwards, I was blind sighted when I went through a relationship breakup. To deal with it, I began taking anything to ease my pain. It turned into a year where I stopped working and was always looking for my next hit. There were times when I couldn’t remember days, and it was only after a five-day bender that I woke up to what I was

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