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Personal Narrative: My First Generation Asian American

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January 1st, 2001, I was born to be first. Two hours before I was delivered, the University of Washington came first in the Rose Bowl. Being born on such a good day, my parents believed I was a lucky baby. They became convinced that I would have amazing fortune in the future and would come first in all competitions and trials life had for me. However, being first also meant I’d be the first one to face obstacles. My parents grew up during the Vietnam war when being educated was a privilege. My mom drop out of the 9th grade to work for a small metal factory her family owned and my dad didn’t finish the 5th grade in order to help his family’s restaurant. Since I’m a first generation child to be born in America and to have a complete education, …show more content…

While my mom was growing up in Vietnam she witnessed and experienced many lies and corruptions. In order to protect herself from this, she lived her life around the Chinese phase jo gan, which literally means to do evil. She learned not trust others and to be selfish, she passed this moral down to me in order to protect me from all the evil the world has. However when I started school I was taught the golden rule: treat others the way you want to be treated. If I stood up to bullying in school, I would be lectured about how I shouldn’t meddle into other people’s businesses and how interfering with bullies will only backfire on me when they make me their target. The things I would be awarded for in school, would be the same reason I’d get scolded for at home. After many praises and lectures I finally found a balance where these two completely different morals overlap. My mom’s definition of the phrase jo gan, taught me the importance of self-love. I’m the one living this life and sometimes I have to do what’s best for me and not what’s best for others. Also, if I can’t learn to love myself, then how can I love others? I have to understand what’s best for me in order to treat others the way they want to be

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