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Personal Narrative: Moving To Arizona

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“We are moving to Arizona. It’s your decision whether or not you come with us.” As a seven year, old girl, this was one of the hardest things to hear from the woman I was supposed to trust most, my mom. I had to make a decision whether or not to move across the country with my mom and a stranger, or move in with my dad and stay near my family. I immediately responded with “I will be staying in Massachusetts”. Although I knew that this decision would flip my world upside down, I didn’t know how much I would personally change because of it. In that moment, I didn’t know that I wouldn’t be seeing my mom for another year. I didn’t know that our relationship would never be the same again. That one sentence changed the whole course of my life. In that split-second decision, I went from a seven-year-old little girl, blind to the reality of life, into a mature young girl forced to swallow the idea of her mother leaving her behind. …show more content…

I’ve had to learn how to grow up quickly. I wasn’t a little girl thinking about playing outside anymore, I was a little girl thinking of the future, when and how I would see my mom again. My maturity level was well beyond that of my peers. While little girls had their moms to turn to with difficult situations, such as dealing with puberty and boys, I learned how to deal with these situations on my own. Growing up with a hardened Marine as a father, there was no “rainbows and butterflies” associated with hard times; I learned that growing up meant I had to think for myself. I had to rely on only my instincts and my adolescent perception of life. Although this made for a perpetual series of ups and downs, I was able to pave a clear path to bring me right where I am today, at peace with myself and grateful for what the situation has taught

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