Personal Narrative: Getting Through The Obstacles Of My Shyness

Honestly for most of my life I've never been the most outgoing person in the world. I suppose a stranger would've called me reserved, but I knew that deep down inside that I had the ability to not be “that shy girl”.In time it did turn out I did have that I did have the ability not to be so quiet but it did take me quite a while; one experience in particular did in a way force me to come out of my shell.

I was comfortable working with children, but this job challenged my social skills. I knew something had changed when I saw an old director from one of my middle school summer camps and decided to say hi. He and his wife regularly brought their son, but I had avoided him in fear of an awkward conversation or being a nuisance. When I saw his name I asked if he worked at the camp and started a conversation. It may seem insignificant, and at the time it seemed like that to me too.

When I was little, I was very shy around new people. I usually only showed who I actually was around my family. I didn’t have a friend who I could be myself around, they were usually just friends who I would play with at recess. That was until everything changed, and I moved across the town of Derby.

Overall, my first semester has been going pretty well. The semester is going like a roller coaster up, down, and fast. I have some bad days and some good days. Through this semester, I have many challenges I faced which I honestly did not want to face. Even though I just wanted to dodge or run away from the challenges, I still face them and fought through them. Some challenges I face this semester, hopefully not in the next, are procrastination, time management, and laziness. I have not only gone through challenges; I have also gone through successes. I am proud of turning assignments on time, passing tests and quizzes, completing my SCR points, and being involved in clubs. Being in Biomed has helped me grow as a student in the area of knowledge.

When it comes to what separates me from other teenagers, there would be quite a bit to tell. I would say a major difference which separates me from my peers is my love for barbershop harmony music. I do not have a quartet of my own; however, I love to sing barbershop tags with other friends at church. I set myself apart from the world because of my beliefs: as a New Testament christian, I believe the bible gives us all instruction concerning spiritual matters.

I want to leave, I want to disappear. Not a vacation, but that spontaneous quick escape with no bothers, just an unrestricted trip to free the mind and enjoy the bits of silence. To go by car to see how the scenery around me changes as I kill the distance, while listening to my favorite music as loud as I can. Just shout out my lungs with my terrible singing. As the music plays, I will grab a book, which will get all my beliefs and views away. No matter what the book will be about. As long as it would get me away, away from here. There would be just me and the characters of the novel, who struggle, fight, and compete, while they face delight, pleasure, and glory. Every so often, I will stop at the cafes on the road to grab some food, which

I breathed in shakily and crossed my arms behind my back. I was never a confident person. Sure, I wasn’t insecure and I was proud of who I was and where I’d come but I was never comfortable talking about myself to others. I was never comfortable revealing myself or even opening up, “What do you want to

I chose to break the norm of either smiling at strangers or giving them a neutral look when you make eye contact. I decided to give every stranger I passed a confused look like they had just spoken to me in another language. I must admit, this made me feel a bit goofy. I was on the fence as to whether or not to do this in the first place but I decided I just had to. The responses I received were quite comical. A few people asked if I was alright, and one person even asked if I had a problem with them.

Who knew that things could change so abruptly, it almost felt that my whole world was flipped within a blink of an eye. Things were going to be different from now on, the people, the weather, even the fresh summer breeze from the coast will soon become a cold bitter winter breeze. This all came to my mind when my mom announced to my family that we’re moving, to New Jersey, once my school goes on summer break. At first, I began to panic, why do we have to move? Why can’t we just live here? We don’t even know anyone there, except for my aunt. We just moved here three years ago from New Jersey, and we didn’t like it, that’s why we only lived there for a month. Then why would we would we like it now? I question my mom, and I demanded explanations

I am Alisha and I just graduated from high school. However, I have taken North Lake classes before while I was in high school. In my free time, I like to hang out with friends, watch movies, reading books and listening to music. I am taking four classes this semester while working a part time job. Two of the classes I am taking are online.

I have two major obstacles that I have overcome in my last three years of school. My first major obstacle is being able to graduate early, I’ll be the first student at Sheyenne to graduate in three years instead of four. It took a lot of hard work and focus, but with the help that I got from my teachers, I was able to do what I needed. I did two summers of summer school, and worked really hard on completing my all my history online. My second obstacle is getting my CNA licenses. It took a very long time, because I have a lot of testing anxiety. The two years I took getting my license was worth it all in the end, because I got to learn and practice new information. During the process I did give up on myself because I couldn’t pass the test,

I am very shy when it comes down to talking in front of a crowd or walking in front of a crowd of people.All my life I've always been kind of shy when you first meet me, but once you get to know me, you'll forget that I ever was shy. In middle school some people who didn't really know me too well thought of me as shy, and maybe even weird for "not talking." I was judged for it, and I was always aware that I was being judged, even at a younger age. Starting in about 6th grade, I was known as the shy girl who never talked, and I was just so used to people thinking of me as that girl that I actually believed what people were saying. It's hard being shy because people think they can just walk all over you and have it be okay because obviously you're not going to say anything. So all throughout elementary and middle school I was walked over, and judged for no reason. There were other scenarios I can't even talk about, and too many of them, but that's not what this essay is about.When I smile at people, it shows that I'm outgoing, friendly, happy, and a great person. And that's what I want to be known as, right?

When I was younger, I had a lot of trouble talking to people. I was shy, the kind of shy that brought books to bible school classes and read them underneath of desks just to avoid socializing. People were scary, I did not know to interact with them. So I turned to spending a lot of time working with and researching animals. When I was in 3rd grade my neighbor gave me a key to his dog kennel so I could play with his puppies. I remember walking up to his house every day after school for an hour or two that year. In tenth grade, I started fostering parrots.

“This is a great experience, you’ll make so many new friends!” my parents told me excitedly

When I was young I was a very shy person. I didn’t like to talk to people and I would try to hide myself in public. I didn’t really do anything active outside of school so i didn’t get any opportunities to meet anybody new. Even at school I only had a couple of friends until my dad introduced me to a sport called golf. He said it was a good way for me to meet new people and it was a fun sport. I tried golf and I met lots of new people. later that day I was enrolled into a golf program. I was kind of scared to play in front other kids but, in the end I met Lots of new people. After going to the golf class A few times I wasn't scared anymore. I felt more confident talking to other people. Even at school I became very social