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Personal Narrative: Aibilen

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“And I swear I see, down deep inside, the woman she gone grow up to be. A flash from the future. She is tall and straight. She is proud. She got a better haircut. And she is remembering the words I put in her head. Remembering as a full-grown woman.” Ten years later, I still remember the wise phrases Aibileen once told me. I will forever cherish the time I spend and have spent with Aibileen. She shaped me into the woman I am today. Without the strength Aibileen has given me throughout my life, I would be lost. In the times of struggle or hardship, I see the great things she has taught me. These last ten years not living in the same house as Aibileen completely, has had a tole on my life. One of the biggest things that has changed me …show more content…

Schoolwork was definatly not the only obstacle that came along. My second year of college was the most challenging. I started the year off strong, but that came to a halt a short time period after this. Having a happy family is not something I had a lot of in my lifetime. Even though I did not having the happiest family ever, I did feel as if my family loved and cared about one another deeply. Having my Great Aunt Betsy pass away due to heart problems, made college an entire different level of hard. I found myself not wanting to get out of bed. I didn’t want to eat or drink. I wasn’t even getting out of bed to shower or take care of personal hygiene. From day to day I got by, by going to class a day or two a week. It took a few weeks for this to show any impact on my grades. Aibileen dropped by my place one morning to deliver some baked goods she had made for me. I had completely forgotten she was planning on stopping by. When she came, I was still in bed sleeping from staying out the night before. She came in and shook me to wake me up. I was so startled I didn’t even realize what was going on at the time. She immediately started throwing clothes, shoes, and my books towards me. I had to start explaining to her that today was one of my days off. I know now today, that was a big mistake. Aibileen started crying and told me she was disappointed in me for what I have been doing to my education. This conversation with Aibileen was a big wake

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