In Romeo and Juliet, perhaps the most famous tragic love story of all time, the titular characters’ courtship and subsequent marriage is constructed in a way that portrays love as a powerful driving force that, when strong enough, is more important than family, loyalties, and societal norms. As such, Romeo and Juliet’s love tears them apart from their respective families and loyalties, which in turn defies everything they have been taught by their families and society as a whole; Montagues and Capulets are mortal enemies and marriage is not for love, but for connecting powerful families. In their courtship and marriage, there are various parts that are essential to the whole. For one, the presence of advisors in Romeo and Juliet’s lives is …show more content…
Juliet’s parents are much more present, but only physically so. Neither is emotionally attached to Juliet nor do they have her best interests at heart, which pushes her towards the Nurse, who she has an emotional attachment to already. Not much can be said about Romeo’s parents as advisors, only that they seem to be more affectionate and caring towards Romeo; they are concerned about Romeo’s melancholy state over Rosaline, and Lady Montague later dies of after Romeo’s exile. Juliet’s parents, on the other hand, are very poor advisors who seek to enhance their power and wealth through her upcoming availability to marry, as evidenced through their insistence on her marriage. They do not listen to Juliet’s protests over the marriage to Paris and instead send the Nurse to discuss it with her. Additionally, Capulet’s threat to disown Juliet displays his lack of any redeeming qualities as an advisor to her. This lack of involvement and beneficial advisement by Romeo and Juliet’s parents is essential to Shakespeare’s construction of romance in this play; as their romance is doomed to fail, it is only fitting that it would not be supported by the parents, as was necessary of the time. For a marriage to be supported by the parents of the bride and groom meant that it would be a successful match for both families, but a marriage that was purely out of love between the bride and groom was viewed as a failure, one that would not provide any benefits to either family. Romeo and Juliet’s marriage was of the latter, and did indeed
Juliet starts thinking for herself and goes against her parents by marrying Romeo, a Montague, showing that since she is mature enough to marry, she is also mature enough to make her own decisions. In 2.6, Friar Laurence is marrying Romeo and Juliet together. Friar Laurence states, “You shall not stay alone/ Till holy church incorporate two in one” (42). Knowing the family rivalry against Capulets and Montagues, Juliet Capulet rebels against her innocence and family by marrying Romeo Montague. Juliet follows through with this decision, going against her parents and thinking for herself once again. She is in love with Romeo and goes against her parents by following through to marry Romeo at the end of 2.6. Not to mention that Juliet is the character
Within the story of Romeo and Juliet the parental figures with responsibility over the children are not just the biological parents, however in the time when the play was written, this would have been normal for the rich, upper class families that the Montague’s and Capulet’s were. The parental figures over the two children change as their relationship between the two lovers develops and other events occur within their family lives. Juliet is the main focus of the changing in parental figures and this may be down to the failing of her by her nurse, at the start of the play the nurse is a vital role in her life, and Shakespeare shows this though Juliet confiding in the nurse. However, this is how the change occurs as we see Juliet feeling
Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet – popularly considered by many to be the quintessential love story of all time – is a play that we are all familiar with in one way or another. Whether it be through the plethora of portrayals, adaptations and performances that exist or through your own reading of the play, chances are you have been acquainted with this tale of “tragic love” at some point in your life. Through this universal familiarity an odd occurrence can be noted, one of almost canonical reverence for the themes commonly believed to be central to the plot. The most widely believed theme of Romeo and Juliet is that of the ideal love unable to exist under the harsh social and political strains of this world. Out of this idea emerge two
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Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy that involves young lovers, their “untimely death,” and a feud between their two families. The Capulets and the Montagues war against each other. The feud continues to escalate and provides the background for the story of these “two star-crossed lovers.” This literary masterpiece is still relevant today since it involves parental ambition, family fighting, and young love.
Juliet and her father definitely had different ideas about her future relationships in this play. Back in that time period, the father of the family was the one who made important decisions for their children, which included who his daughter was allowed to get married to, even if they opposed their preference. So, in the play, Lord Capulet gives his approval to a man named Paris to marry his daughter because he had a promising future and was very prosperous and could provide Juliet with anything she might require. Although she had this option of spouse, she chose
Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy play written by Shakespeare. It is set in Verona, Italy during the 13th century, two noble families are feuding and two young lovers, one from each family fall in love. Romeo and Juliet have to keep their love a secret due to the ongoing war between their families. This suggests that their relationship with their parents is not one of trust. Relationships between children and parents then and now are very different because today parents are much closer to their children emotionally however in the time the play was set in the parents and children were distant from each other, this may be because nowadays parents are the prime carers but then people would
Romeo and Juliet's families get in the way of their relationship. Juliet's mom and dad do not give her freedom to who she wants to marry. Lady Capulet tells Juliet that she is getting married to Paris. Lady Capulet - “‘Well, think of marriage now. Younger than you, here in Verona, ladies of esteem, are made already mothers.
Every parent wants the best for their child, and the Capulets are no exception. What they do not realize is that this marriage is not what Juliet wants, and their love and inability to accept their daughter’s decision is what ultimately leads Juliet to fix the situation herself. The Nurse, who is more of a mother to Juliet than Lady Capulet, eventually betrays Juliet as well. The Nurse, thinking she is comforting Juliet, advises her to forget about Romeo and marry Paris because he’s more attractive and more attainable. Juliet accepts this as the final straw, and she goes to Friar Lawrence for help, which causes her fated death.
Men in Italian literature are portrayed in this very bipolar value of either a positive figure, or a negative influence. At times, the father figure is presented in good light, as someone who was there to support their family, and thought of family as the most important part of their life. One of my favorite male characters represented in our readings, was the Doctor in “The Other Son”. He was a good spirited man, that helped the poor in whatever way he could, while also being one of the only people in the village that could read and write. This is the only doctor I will ever love because, he helped poor Maragrazia write a letter to her sons, that went off to America, when everyone else just played with her and wrote scribble letters (Pirandella 38). Another example of a good young man is Remo from Rosa’s story. He singled himself out early on, as the first love interest, and was such a Romeo as he “was waiting when I came home from the mill” and loved Rosa with all his heart (Rosa 134). Remo was such a pure good boy, that I thought for certain he would be the one going to America and taking Rosa with him. There was also the man that helped the two boys in “The Biography of a Bootblack,” that got them out of begging, and made them into honest men. He was probably the most generous man in all the readings so far, because not only did he adopt these boys, but he also taught them how to read and write, and let them leave on their own to America to make a name for themselves.
Parental figures are apparent throughout all sources of entertainment. They are often times main characters in a story with families. Nevertheless, parents, in books and movies, sometimes act as conflicts themselves. Parents sometimes lack communications with their children, and do not express the reasons behind their emotions openly.
“We’ve called it Family Safety. We are calling it Family Safety rather than Parental Control because people don’t like that term. Both parent and definitely child don’t like the idea of controlling, blocking, or spying on them or others” (written by unknown). Most parents think to have control of your child is the way parenting works. Some of these parents find that their child rebels against their “very specific” instructions. Between parent and child, their will always be a aspect of control and rebellion but this is because it could feel like the parent doesn’t trust the kid, the kid disagrees with the judgement call, and it has been proven to happen through surveys. In Romeo and Juliet’s time, when parents tried to use authority to control
The Relationship Between Parents And Children In William Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet The tragedy of 'Romeo and Juliet' is the result of feuding between two noble families in Verona/Italy. Romeo was born into the Montague household, who were the more controlled, quieter family. They did not 'enjoy' the fights therefore tried to avoid the feuds.
How much do parents affect their children’s lives? Some parents are extremely controlling over their children while others let them do whatever they want. Others find a happy medium between these two extremes. In the play The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare, parents greatly impact their children’s lives. While the parents in the play do not control every aspect of the youth’s lives, they still affect a large proportion. Long-term parental relationships play a huge role in children’s lives while short-term friendships and romantic relationships are affected by parental relationships in life and in the play Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare.
Shakespeare shows parental love in Romeo and Juliet, in order to show the sacrifices parents have to make in order to truly love their child. Parent love is the love that your parents show to you from a young age. Parent love can be shown when you are born because your parent smiles at you or when you are a kid your parent tucks you in at night and kisses your forehead. Parent love is not abusing the child or neglecting him or her, it is caring about the child and what they have to offer in life. This type of love is different from all the other loves because you and your parent have a special connection that no one else has, which is the fact that you are blood related.