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Our Town Companionship

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The first thing that Our Town has taught me is the significance of companionship through friendship and marriage, and love is a natural occurrence in one’s life. In Act II, Wilder expresses the importance of human connections, such as friendship and marriage through the character of George and Emily. George and Emily grew up together as friends and their friendship eventually developed into a romantic relationship. Perhaps, one of the quotes that best describes the importance of companionship is when Mrs. Gibbs told Emily before her wedding, that “people are meant to go through life two by two. ’Tain’t natural to be lonesome” (Wilder 68). This quote pertains to the natural tendency for romantic love to grow between two people, and to the sacredness …show more content…

Mr. Webb, Emily’s father, demonstrates this when he tells George not to listen to other people’s advice about marriage. Mr. Web says, “. . . I took the opposite of my father’s advice and I’ve been happy ever since. And let that be a lesson to you, George, never ask advice on personal matters . . .” I wrestle with this idea, but deep down I know it is true. Yes, I think it is necessary to take the opinions of those close to my heart into consideration when I make an important decision. However, I have realized since reading Our Town that I need to put more attention into myself when making difficult decisions than relying on other people. I even asked myself, “if you — who is living the problem — can’t fully grasp the issue, then what makes you think anyone else could?” Sure, there are many of those who lived through very similar situations, but there is no one that has ever been in the same exact situation as mine — nor will there ever be. Therefore, I realize that I should try harder to give myself more say in every important decisions I make. I know now that it is alright to listen to the advice of those around me, but it is important that I should take the time to really think about what I want, not what other people want me to

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