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Negative Effects Of Absent Fathers

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So many of family problems today have their root in dysfunctional fathers. Fatherhood is not just about producing a child, but being responsible physically, emotionally, and spiritually for the life of the child. However, many American men have abandoned their responsibility of fatherhood as designed by God. The Industrial Revolution moved the colonial man from his work close in the home, to work outside the home in the factory. Men who used to have an active roll in raising their children, transferred the responsibility to their wives and public school systems run by women. “Over the course of 150 years, from the mid-eighteenth century to the end of the nineteenth century, American men walked out on their God-given responsibility for moral and spiritual leadership in the homes, schools, and Sunday schools of the nation.” (Piper, Grudem 379) Absent fathers have had a drastic impact on children, especially sons affecting their self-esteem and confidence. Male role models are also missing in the public schools. In the public school, boys are required to learn like girls and have three to ten times as many learning and behavior disorders than girls. Many times a boy’s masculine behavior is even labeled as ‘being bad’. As boys get older, crime increases with those in fatherless families. An increased lack of feeling and compassion is being seen in those committing the crimes, with 78 percent of them being boys. “The plague of missing fathers is creating an American male

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