At this time in my life, I find myself to be a parent, a friend, and an employee. these are the main characteristic that have influenced my life. Becoming a parent, has taught me what love is and to never take someone for granted. I don’t consider myself a friend to many people only to a few that understand me and knows what I am about in regards to being a friend. Also I consider myself a dedicated employee. being these things, a parent, a friend, and an employee have made me become who I am today.
I never thought that becoming a mom would change my life the way it has. I have two beautiful kids that are my world. Even though there 11 years apart every day I fall in love all over again. For example, I may have had a rough day at work and I would come home and my two kids would greet me with the biggest hug and kiss s and say “Mommy” with the biggest smile on their faces. I can recall on my 30 birthday my daughter who always made me something for my birthday saved up her money a bought me a diamond necklace with the word mom in it. I became a mother at the age of 20. I had to grow up and take on a big responsibility. I also realize it wasn’t just me that I would have to take care of. Being a parent I had to start preparing for the future of my kids. I had to open a saving account and start putting money up for their college and for other things that were needed such as clothes, shoes, and even feed them. I’ve also learned that being a parent you have to
Today, in western industrialized nations, the decision whether or not to have children is, as Berk (2004) describes it a “….matter of individual choice” (p.460). This contrasts with many non western nations where what Michaels (1988, cited in Berk, 2004) describes childbearing as, “…an unavoidable cultural demand” (p.460).
JLT Re’s reserve notice dated 12/20/16 notes Odyssey Reinsurance Company’s (Odyssey) 30% ceded share of this loss excess $1,000,000 is $219,087. However, my review of the cede’s, IAT / Harco National (IAT) supporting documentation notes a total incurred of $2,848,432.43, based on this information, Odyssey’s correct 30% share excess of $1,000,000 is $543,791.65 ($525,000 Loss & $18,791.65 pro rated expense). Please advise whether you’re in agreement with our calculations.
When you hear the words I am pregnant from husbands standpoint. You are over-whelmed and you think man I did it now. These are natural reactions to the news. Babies are a wonder and a blessing. They bring happiness and frustration and this is how my story goes. One that would change me forever. I found out that my wife was pregnant about six months after my wife had a miscarriage. Then that day came my son was born was amazing and change me with happiness, less sleep, and nervousness.
This experience really hasn’t changed my life plans. This being because I never intended on having children so therefore I wouldn’t say that it doesn’t affect some people's point of view but personally my thought/plan of the future is the same. I feel that if the problem presented itself that I wouldn’t be the worst parent that there ever was. Having children at a young age however, is something that no one really can say that they will fully be able to handle because no matter what age no one is really ever fully prepared for children and the stress, burden, or expense that they
“The Miller’s Tale,” part of Geoffrey Chaucer’s larger work, “The Canterbury Tales,” is a bawdy and irreverent story about lust, deception, and consequences. Chaucer’s work centers around four main characters: John is a dimwitted carpenter, Alison is John’s young and wife, Nicholas is a scholar who resides in John’s household, and Absolon is a priest’s assistant with a romantic fixation on Alison. Throughout the tale, deceptive plots and questionable decisions abound, and no one is completely innocent of wrongdoing. Of course, like with most any other story involving lies and selfish pursuits, every character gets an informal education on natural consequences. It is worth noting that Nicholas is the only character in the story with any
There is no doubt in my mother’s mind that her children are the biggest blessing in her life. She is happy to have us because although we have caused a lot of stress we have also provided her and my father with a lot of happiness. They are proud of the children they raised, and wouldn’t change a thing. They believe that it is a blessing, since many people aren’t able to have children of their own. It is unconditional love, because love toward your child is the purest kind of love there is. There are times when there will be fights and arguments but that won’t change the feelings that your child has towards you. As a parent, you get to be a kid again since you are able to watch cartoons, play games, and just enjoy the things that children enjoy doing. You get to learn how to be selfless since you have to put the needs and wants of somebody else before yours. You get to discover things about yourself that you didn’t know
It was July 6, 2015, I woke up at 4:45 a.m it was time to get ready and go to the hospital. I was having my baby boy today! I needed to be at the hospital between 5 and 5:30 to be induced. I was so nervous, but I had carried my baby boy for 9 months and I was ready to finally hold him.
Becoming a mother changed my life in a very profound way. Due to my own upbringing, I was
My interviewee is a second generation immigrant with one parent who was born in El Salvador and the other who has Mexican roots but was born in the United States. For the purposes of confidentiality my interviewee will be addressed as Ana from here on out. In this interview paper I will discuss the experiences that Ana faced growing up in a tri-racial household. I will also evaluate her experiences regarding assimilation to the lectures and reading assigned through out this course.
Throughout life I have experienced numerous events that have shaped me into becoming the person I am to this day. Out of all these events, my adoption has been the most significant and life changing event of my life. Two weeks before my first birthday in, I was adopted from Nanchang, China. As I grew up, my parents never once tried to conceal my adoption. Without them, I believe I would have grown to be a totally different person. Although I was adopted and brought in by my adoptive parents, I see myself in the everyday. I see them as nothing less than my real parents and I aspire to be as generous and compassionate as they are. Without them, I would have never been able to experience half of the life changing events I have gone through. As
First, motherhood has provided me with perspective. I have learned to work together as a team with my husband as we raise our three children. I have learned patience and selflessness as I have put the needs of my children before my own. I know how to budget my time, multi-task, and organize my schedule efficiently. I have learned to set boundaries and enforce
Growing up in a home with both my parents, I was fortunate to be able to spend a lot of quality time with my father. We used to go out together and play soccer, baseball, and ride bikes. I remember we used to play a lot of old school video games and my mother would get pretty upset at the hours we spent playing and not doing anything productive. In my point of view, our relationship was perfect; our bond was strong like any father and son. I was only four years old when my world was turned upside down. My life changed the day that my mom and my dad separated, I felt alone. The process of a divorce was too much for a child that age to handle; it was a hard time for me. Although I had no father figure for about 12 years because my dad moved
I had one of the best experience in my life being a mom welcoming new life in this world. I admit in the beginning I was only nineteen years old I had no job, no mature level, no clue how to raise a baby. In the beginning I was bit paralyzed with fear, but as months starting coming and going I became very sad to having excitement. I had create a living being that seems like a dream, but it was real person inside my body. I had no idea what the journey was going be like at all, I was not sure if he or she was going cherish and believable bond that would last whatsoever. The three stages I experience when having a baby in my stomach was during my pregancy , birth of my baby and even today.
There are three very important aspects that play a major rule in my life. They can be categorized as intellectual, social, and spiritual. My intellectual self is interesting because I am mainly right-brained which means that I tend to use my creativity more than my mathematical skills, also making me a visual learner. My social self consists of friends, family, and my surroundings. I spend most of my time at home with my family. Whenever I am with my friends, I observe their behaviors and listen to their opinions. I am more of an independent type of person. Being with different people has influenced me into appreciating different cultures and beliefs. I have learned things that have now been incorporated into my own set of beliefs and
As a child, I remember growing up in an area of Atlanta, Georgia called Mechanicsville. This area was very diverse with people from various socioeconomic backgrounds. Often, my mother would share valuable life lessons with my siblings and me. One, in particular, I remember even to this day is, “Life is only as challenging or motivating as you make it”. Originally, I did not quite understand the purpose of this aphorism; but as I got older, the meaning became quite clear. Although life for me has been both wholesome and unhealthy, in hindsight, it seemed better than my childhood friends. If you knew the real story, you would see that my life is not as perfect as it appears. Just to provide you with a little insight into my world, I had a