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THIS IS NOT MY SHOE SIZE

“The identity crisis….occurs in that period of the life cycle when each youth must forge for himself some central perspective and direction, some working unity, out of the effective remnants his childhood and the of his anticipated adulthood.” Erick Erikson

Have you ever tried on someone else’s shoes? In this instance I am talking in a literal sense. I know I have, I use to wear my dad’s cowboy boots. I loved the fact of flopping all around in a shoe that my foot really didn’t fit. Girly frills didn’t excited me too much, so my mother shoes weren’t my choice. My father was invincible to me, in my eyes he was my hero. I couldn’t remember a time that he never came through for me. Now as an adult I know that …show more content…

There was one particular pair of shoes that I would repetitively place on my small foot, his cowboy boots.

I know those of you reading from abroad may think that it would obvious because I am from Texas, but we aren’t all cowboys and cowgirls. Most people you meet from Texas are really city people. My father’s cowboy boots were large and covered most of my legs, when wearing them. So being the word junky I am, I looked up some information about cowboy boots. As you may know the Lord gave me revelation through something just as simple as a cowboy boot. According to sheplers.com article entitled “History of Cowboy Boots”, they could not pinpoint the origin of this particular fashion. It did depict a story, there was a cowboy who walked into the shoe makers place and said that he needed some changes made to his current boots. First he need the front of the shoe to be made pointed so that he could fit his foot into the stirrups, while riding the horse. Second he needed a taller shaft to protect his leg so …show more content…

There was a boy by the name of David Vetter, otherwise known as “David, the bubble boy”. He suffered with a rare disease called severe combined immunodeficiency (SCID), this disease is hereditary and causes the immune system to weaken. This caused him to have to live in an extreme sterile environment. He could not attend any functions without having a special suit that NASA built for him, and even still he had to be connected to the bubble he lived in. David lost his life to this disease at the age of 12, and that’s when his story was told. Rejection does this same thing to others. When rejection happens to a child they will live in a bubble until they realize what God’s plan is for their lives. You might be saying, Brandee people do not live in a bubble. Yes, not physically. Yet emotionally, and spiritually you began to live in a bubble. This bubble will cause you not to trust anyone, and that trust will be lost within yourself also. Most of all your trust will be lost in our Lord and Savior. You will began to think everyone will reject you, and this can make it hard to live your life. When you lose trust in others it becomes hard to create relationships, because God uses people to help us. How do you lose trust in yourself? You lose it because if rejection seems to be a constant, you lose trust in your judgement and choices. At that moment you forget who you are, and

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