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My Grandmother Had Breast Cancer

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In 2009, my grandmother had breast cancer. She underwent chemotherapy and all sorts of cancer treatments and was then told that her cancer had gone in remission. 3 years later, she started losing appetite and felt bloated all the time. She lost so much weight that I hardly recognized her. Aunt sent her for more scans, and turned out her cancer recurred. Aunt was the one who got her results. After a family discussion (without grandma), the decision was to not let grandma know it was cancer, but just an ordinary indigestion. Everyone was told to not even mention a word about ‘cancer’. Obviously, grandma did not receive treatments a normal cancer patient would receive, instead, she was told to practice ‘Qi Gong’ – a Chinese meditation which is believed to have healing effect. 6 months after her cancer recurrence, she passed away.

In this case, the most obvious ethical concern was truth telling. From my family’s perspective, they had the intention to prevent my grandmother from being saddened by the news. They were worried that my grandmother’s emotional state would be affected and that in turn deteriorates her condition. Accounting for the possibility of harming my grandmother, is honesty always the best policy? This action, however, is against the beneficence principle. By giving ‘Qi Gong’ meditation as the only option, my grandmother loss the opportunity to be benefited from the scientifically proven cancer treatment and palliative care. In my opinion, my family did not

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