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My Family With Asperger's Syndrome

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Looks can be deceiving. Although this is a rather cliché expression, it can perfectly describe my family of five. On the outside, my family of looks normal, but we have a hidden blessing that many do not notice. I am the youngest of my siblings with two older brothers. One of them has Asperger’s syndrome. He is our hidden blessing. Externally, he looks normal, but internally he is coping a complicated developmental disorder. Despite all the difficulties he brings upon my family, I consider him a blessing because he brings awareness to the household that life isn’t as easy for some people as it is for others. He makes me appreciate the simple things in life that come natural to me but is very difficult for him to visualize or accomplish. One …show more content…

Consequently, many tantrums are thrown when he does not get what he wants and it is hard for him to understand that people do not always get what they want. When we were younger, I was able to understand what he wanted and communicate that to my parents when they did not comprehend what he was expressing. Growing up with him has enhanced my communication skills because I am able to notice the nonverbal actions that many people overlook. Having a brother with Asperger’s syndrome caused me to mature at a younger age and be a role model to him. We are just two years apart and I was the first one to get a job and learn how to drive a car. He saw the luxuries that I was able to have and wanted the same. I had a job opening at my work so I had him fill out an application and he was hired. It was ideal for us to work at the same job because I am able to give him assistance and pick up his slack for he is a slow worker. Although he does make family life harder, I would not have developed into the person I am today without him. I am thankful that I have a hidden blessing in my family that has opened my eyes to recognize the diversity among

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