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My Christmas Day : My Memory

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Things were looking good. Maybe we would get more than a year. Could we be that lucky? The tumor hadn’t grown back yet; the radiation had seemed to work. But then--then it didn’t. My world had been shaken. My life forever changed. My Grandpa was gone. Christmas night is my favorite memory. It was our last night all together as a family. My grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and my cousin’s baby whom was named after my Grandpa Jim were all together for the last time. Before going to the hospital, my family (minus Grandma and Grandpa) went to the Christmas eve service. It was different going to the Christmas Eve service in Sioux Falls, it seemed lonelier—something was missing, my heart felt empty. After going to church, our …show more content…

Once everyone calmed down and pulled themselves together, we opened presents. We had brought the presents we had bought for Grandma and Grandpa and Grandma brought the presents for us, so Grandpa could watch us open them. We usually do a game every year where there are boxes of different things that grandma puts together. Everyone gets a box and while grandma is reading a story, we pass the boxes certain ways when we hear certain words. This year, so much was going on that we were not able to do this, but we were happy that we got to be together none the less. The youngest opened her presents then we continued up the line. When we got to Grandpa, we had a surprise for him. We had taken a picture of all us grandkids together and put it in a big frame for him to have in his hospital room while he recovered. Not only did we get him this, but my entire family had written memories and things we loved about my grandpa on pieces of paper and filled a jar full of them to give him encouragement when he needed it most. It was a very fun, emotional night which I will never forget. Two days later, Grandpa was moved into hospice care in Sioux Falls. We went to see him almost every day. I said my last goodbye on December 30 and at about 12:30 a.m. on January 1, grandpa passed away peacefully. Through this experience not only at Christmas but through this entire time with grandpa in the hospital, I’ve learned that it

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