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Mother Who Gave Me Life By Gwen Harwood Analysis

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Compare the ways in which poets reflect on parental relationships – Daddy by Sylvia Plath and Mother Who Gave Me Life by Gwen Harwood
Sylvia Plath and Gwen Harwood tell two very different stories of parental relationships, Mother Who Gave Me Life praising Harwood’s mother and speaking with love and affection, whereas Plath’s Daddy is full of hate for her father. These reflections on the poet’s parental relationships are made using imagery, symbolism and tone.
Plath starts her poem out negatively, ‘barely daring to breathe or Achoo’, with a distinct repetition of the ‘oo’ sounds in ‘Achoo’, ‘do’, ‘shoe’ and ‘du’ creating a childlike, nursery rhyme style of delivery that contrasts greatly with the violent and dark themes. Harwood begins on a significantly more positive if wistful note, ‘forgive me the wisdom I would not learn from you’ positioning her mother as a wise and positive influence. The tones of the poems are very different, as shaped by the poet’s experiences with their parents, with Harwood creating an affirmative, loving description of her relationship with her mother while Plath develops a much darker and sinister view s.
Plath describes her father as classically Aryan in appearance ‘your neat moustache/and your Aryan eye, bright blue’ making him the antagonist in their relationship, reinforced by her descriptions as herself as a Jew, or the victim, ‘chuffing me off like a Jew.../I have always been scared of you’. Although the Nazi comparisons are abundant throughout the poem she also uses symbolism and other comparisons to make the same point. She conjures the image of her father as a dark and monstrous creature who, ‘bit my pretty red heart in two/...the vampire who said he was you’ reinforcing the audience’s negative view of her father. The symbolic description of her father as vampire and Nazi gives the audience a clear idea of Plath’s father, destroying her and sucking out her life. In direct contrast with Plath’s dark image, Harwood’s representation of her mother is full of admiration and love, ‘It is not for my children I walk on earth.../it is for you’. She doesn’t give a description of her mother in the way Plath does of her father, using a more indirect approach to create a general, yet

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