In today’s society, many parents are debating if they should watch their kids social life. Some say it’s an invasion of their kids privacy, and they should let kids figure it out themselves, but others say that their safety comes first. Parents should monitor their kids social media because it encourages good responsibility, it decreases the chance for cyberbullying, and it ensures safety for a child. First of all, parents should monitor their kids social media account(s) because it encourages good responsibility. This is important for future notice if a child wanted to get a job. The interviewer/ employer would look on social media accounts to see what background/reputation the child had/has throughout the years. According to Careerbuilder….”According to CareerBuilder’s annual social media recruitment survey, 60 percent of employers use social networking sites to research job candidates, up significantly from 52 percent last year, 22 percent in 2008 and 11 percent in 2006, when the survey was first conducted. Additionally, 59 percent of hiring managers use search engines to research candidates – compared to 51 percent last year.” This proves that good responsibility can impact a child's future greatly if a parent can …show more content…
Cyberbullying is a big risk that can lead to suicide, and other factors that not only have physical scars, but mental scars. According to BullyStatisics.com…”Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people, resulting in about 4,400 deaths per year, according to the cdc for every one suicide among young people, there are at least 100 attempts.” This shows us that cyberbullying has effects that people can’t go back from, but can be prevented if parents/guardians take the extra step, and monitor their kids social media to restrict the cyber bullying and stress from
With social media growing and growing into a mass of accounts and profiles and different groups of people and clubs and websites and other things, what adolescents do on social media is something that many parents worry about. Not every parent is at ease with the fact that their child/teenager is out in open water; one young human being surrounded by millions of other human beings who are younger, the same age, or older than them. The article “Teenage social media butterflies may not be such a bad idea” takes a look at teenagers ' use of social media. Social media is a very important tool, allowing people to connect or continue their relationships without
In the article Let Kids Run Online written by Danah Boyd, Boyd questions whether parents monitoring their children's online social life is a good or a bad thing. Many parents can agree that monitoring their phones and computers is actually a good thing. It can keep children out from harm’s way, it would be easier for parents to find things out that their kids don’t feel comfortable to actually say out loud, and it could possibly bring them closer together by having them be so close.
Theres two problems children are facing and parents included. Children shouldn’t be allowed to be on social media at the age of six between fourteen. They shouldn’t be allowed to because young children don’t have the age because they won’t be able to know what’s going on social media. I think it’s a bad idea letting your children
86 percent of kids use social media. Teens are using social media to keep in touch with friends but, teens with bad backgrounds may be talking to strangers. Parents don’t really know if they should allow kids on social media. Is social media a safe environment for kids?
Cyber bullying is becoming a bigger and bigger problem on social networking sites. There have been quite a few teenage suicides in which cyber bullying seems to have played a role. In at least one case, the suicide of Alexis Pilkington, the bullying kept going on her tribute page even after her death. (Glor) “Cyber-Bullying can cause the victim to become chronically depressed and to experience a complete loss of self-esteem. A short exposure to Cyber-Bullying can have long term effects. It can result in Cyber-Bullying Suicides.” (Cyber-Bullying Suicides - Cyber Bullycide Victims ) It has many forms such as degradation, harassment, cyber stalking, impersonation, flaming (using vulgar and angry language to start fights with the victim), password theft and hacking accounts, posting photos or videos, among several others. (Cyber-Bullying Suicides - Cyber Bullycide Victims ) Bullying has been around way before the internet, but now that it is online, rumors, pictures or other forms of cyber bullying make their way around the community much faster so it is easier to humiliate someone in front of more people. “In the Internet era, it appears there are more people interested in spewing hate than in countering it. On the social networking sites and on YouTube, inflammatory, hate-filled content overwhelms the limited efforts to
To begin with, parents spy on their kids so they could know what they bring doing during their days.In the article the author states that “61 percent of parents checked the websites that their teenagers visited, 60 percent visited their social media accounts and 48 percent looked through their phone calls and messages. Basically, what is this quote is saying is that parents are tracking their kids due to their websites that they go thru their cell phones who they being texting or calling and they social media such as facebook instagram. This is important because, it shows that parents are very careless for their child. So, if
This disadvantages being poor in real life connection, privacy, and the fear of missing out are more substantial.” The thesis statement for the revised essay “Monitoring Children’s Online Activity could be stronger. The author could have focused the thesis statement to why children should be monitored and what the outcome of monitor could be as well as focusing it more to the situations/events that happen online that a child may not be able to handle. Although the authors thesis statement could be stronger her point is made clear as to what she wants the readers to gain from reading her essay. The appeals the author used to convince the audience was getting quotes from parents who use an app to monitor their child’s account, explaining situations and events that may happen online, and talking about maturity. The evidence the author used included some scholarly sources as well as some popular sources. The author could have used more credible
Cyberbullying is a relatively new threat, and it is very similar to traditional bullying. Despite the fact that cyberbullying and traditional bullying both share the common goal of harassment, cyberbullying differs from traditional bullying in that it does not stop at the schoolyard, and can continue when the victim is far away from the aggressor. It is just as devastating as common bullying, and sometimes is even more damaging. Professors Sameer Hinduja and Justin W. Patchin note in their journal, “Cyberbullying Creates Dangerous Stress and Anxiety”, that cyberbullying affects anywhere between 10-40% of students (contingent on their age group) (par. 1). J.D. Kelly A. Albin, in her article “Bullies in a Wired World”, defines cyberbullying as “…the ‘willful and repeated harm inflicted through use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices’” (157). It is caused by the fact that children feel their actions are mitigated when they use social media, as it creates the illusion of indirectness, and its effects range anywhere from mild depression to suicide.
In our 21st century, social media has a huge role in our every day lives and that places a responsibility on parents to monitor what children watch on the screen.
Your child may think that if they post a nude or a semi nude picture on Instagram, they will become somehow popular. But certain things shouldn't be posted online because they will harm your child's reputation or hurt their future chances for a job or college admission. Also, monitoring can help parents identify “bad apples”. Some of your child's friends could be trying to convince him to do drugs, shoplift, or do something else against your family's moral code. In addition, monitoring can help parents to keep away online predators from their child. The Internet is the #1 tool of child predators for finding and developing friendships with children around social media. If a child has a smartphone, he has extensive access to the Internet through his mobile device. This translates to your child having convenient access to virtually any type of website, including gambling and pornography. All this can be avoided if you start watching what your child is doing in the
Social media has negative effects on adolescents who overuse it. It is important as parents or guardians to remember to monitor how much kids use social media and when they use it. As a parent or guardian, you must remember that the disorders kids can get from overusing social media is real. Also remember that the internet isn’t always the safest place for our children. The use of social media can be damaging and it has no benefit. Keep control of your children’s use on social media to avoid these negative effects. The internet does interfere with daily
Social networking sites such as Facebook and MySpace have exploded in recent years and young surfers in particular have become ardent fans of this dynamic and high-tech way to connect with the wider world around them, communicating with friends and hooking up with like-minded people. But as with everything in the virtual world, parents do need to understand how their children are interacting on social networking sites, and be sure their children know what to do if they have experience a bad or dangerous situation.
There is a lot of bullying that goes on in this world, a majority of it being cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is a constant problem with young kids on social media. Cyberbullying is a risk for anyone, “Cyberbullying is deliberately using digital media to communicate false, embarrassing, or hostile information about another person. It is the most common online risk for all teens and is a peer-to-peer risk” (AAP). Nonetheless, bullying is always going to happen and cyberbullying allows it to happen
Kids under 12 should not be able to have social media accounts . Social media such as musical.ly, instagram, twitter, tumblr, etc could be exposing your child to inappropriate things and/or exposing your child to dangerous people. 65% of online sex offenders use victim's social network to find their home and school information. 82% of sex offenders go on their victims social media to gain knowledge on their victim’s likes and dislikes.. A whopping 100% of sex offenders all use fake information to trick little girls or boys into think they are their age and they are friends of friends, but they are not. Using fake information is called catfishing , catfishing is a deceptive activity involving a person making a sock puppet social media for very bad reasons.
While cyberbullying affects each child differently, there has been a clear correlation between victims and non-victims and their self-esteem. In one study, bullied victims had less self-esteem than those who were not bullied online. Additionally, it was reported that victims of cyberbullying were thirty percent more likely to think about committing suicide (Cyberbullying Research Center, 2012). With the lack of parent supervision, it was found that those who spent more than three hours per school day on social networks were 110% more at risk to be a cyberbully victim as compared those who do not spend as much time online (Gilkerson, 2012). What may be worse is the fact that majority of those bullied online do not tell their parents or an adult about what occurred. Despite the fact that most adolescents state that bullying occurs more offline then online, cyberbullying is still a real and large threat to the youth of America (Lenhart, 2007).