Mitch Albom's Tuesdays With Morrie Aphorism

Most patients of borderline personality disorder suffer from problems regulating emotions and thoughts, impulsive and reckless behavior, and unstable relationships with other people. People with this disorder have high rates of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and eating disorders. Oftentimes, it leads to self-harm, and suicidal behaviors.

Mitch Albom described in the book did not resemble the Mitch Albom in the movie production. American author and sports columnist Mitch Albom in his memoir from Tuesdays with Morrie (1997) records his weekly conferences with his old, diseased professor for his final thesis about life. He develops his tear-jerking chronicle by first describing Morrie before Lou Gehrig’s disease, then addressing his new lifestyle with the disease, then listing their discussion topics in chapter title form, and finally recounting how Morrie’s wise words have impacted the way Mitch lives and encounters life. Albom’s purpose is to raise money and awareness of the disease in order to pay for Morrie’s medical bills. He establishes a buoyant tone for the general public. However, although this memoir to a man’s favorite professor is a success and a best-seller, no book is complete without a movie, in Hollywood. In 1999, talk-show host Oprah Winfrey produced a film dedicated to the narrative written by Albom. However, this film did not closely resemble the memoir for entertainment reasons. Mitch is not completely portrayed correctly; the film would be boring if the story was identical.

My project for the novel "Tuesday's with Morrie" is a picture frame with aphorisms inside. The picture frame will have fourteen of my favorite aphorisms from the novel. With the fourteen aphorisms there will be a few pictures to tie the picture frame together. There are fourteen aphorisms because Mitch sees Morrie on fourteen Tuesday's before Morrie dies. I made this project so I could have the picture frame remind me to stay positive. Aphorisms help me continue to stay positive even if I don't want to be positive because of the meanings behind them.

There are a lot of different aphorisms in Tuesdays with Morrie. Like “Accept what you are able to do and what you are not able to do.” Morrie means to show that people should accept that if they can do something they should do it and if they are not able to do something they should accept it. I can not relate to thin aphorism because when I can’t do something I try to find a way to do it no matter what. Another aphorism is " Learn to Forgive yourself and to forgive others." What Morrie means by this is you should forgive yourself for what you have done in the past and then you can forgive others to. I can relate to this aphorism because I have done things I wish I didn’t but i forgave myself and others. "Don't assume it's too late to get

‘’We all need teachers in our lives’’ Mitch said that quote to Morrie. Saying that we learn some from everybody. Morrie learns a lot before he dies because he thinks about life more. Then Mitch was always there for him.

Tuesdays with Morrie, was based on a true story about friendship and lessons learned. It’s about a sports writer, Mitch and former sociology professor, Morrie, who is in his last days of life after being diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS) and their rekindled relationship after many years. They first met on the campus grounds at Brandeis University. This never forgotten relationship was simply picked back up at a crucial time in both Mitch’s and Morrie’s life. After seeing his professor in an interview on the show “Nightline”, Mitch is reminded of a promise he made sixteen years earlier to keep in touch. Since the airing of that

Mitch Albom’s novel Tuesdays with Morrie delves into the complexities of the human condition from the stand point of an elderly man that is slowly dying from the disease ALS, Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. The man, Morrie, decides to spend the last of his time on earth spreading his wisdom to as many people as possible, teaching them a lot about the importance of life, as well as what is necessary to live life to the fullest and be truly happy. What Morrie teaches these people is something great poets have been doing for a very long time. In the novel Tuesdays with Morrie, Mitch Albom expresses themes and ideas in everyday life that relate back to poetry and can be applied to one’s perspective of the human condition.

The focus throughout Tuesdays with Morrie was on life. Many might see it as the story of death, but it is actually the story life. Morrie might talk a little on how he meets death, but what he is talking about is living at the end of his life. Mitch writes, “Now here we were . . . . . . Dying man talks to living man, tells him what he should know.”(Albom, 133) When a timer is placed on Morrie’s remaining days, he obtains a dying man’s perspective on what is truly important in life, and how to incorporate in life this importance. I looked for parts of the book that pertain directly to my life; I focused on this concept while reading this book. My thesis remained elusive. There wasn’t a Tuesday that jumped out at me, and then I came to the

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Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a serious and complex mental disorder involving maladaptive behaviors and multiple symptoms. This disorder often occurs in the context of relationships and can have a chaotic effect not only on the individual with BPD but also on their loved ones. According to the NIMH, “borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a serious mental illness characterized by unstable moods, behavior, and relationship”.9 A primary character of BPD is behavioral and emotional dysregulation. These behaviors are difficult

“I leaned in and kissed him closely, my face against his, whiskers on whiskers, skin on skin, holding it there, longer than normal, in case it gave him even a split second of pleasure” from Mitch Albom’s novel, Tuesdays with Morrie (2007). Facing death and the unknown, Morrie talks with his pupil, Mitch, about his (Morrie’s) path through ageing and then, to death. An inspiring novel of a former professor and sharing his perspectives with a younger, man’s heart softening with the professor’s words of wisdom. Discussing ageing and what it means, fearing ageing, developing a fulfilled life, death and the meaning thereof, fearing death, and obtaining a positive attitude about an inevitable life event, are all important aspects to communicate with others.

In an effort to share the “last class” he had with his college sociology professor, Mitch Album wrote, “Tuesdays with Morrie.” This moving account of the life lessons that Morrie taught him is a beautiful tribute to a man whose compassion and love for humanity made him a favorite among those who knew him. Though stricken with the debilitating disease ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis) and knowing death was swiftly approaching Morrie continued to help others until his body no longer allowed him to do so. Album uses time sequence, characterization and point of view to chronicle the experiences he had and the lessons he learned while visiting with his friend every Tuesday during that

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Many people learn many things in many different ways. Most learn in school or church, some learn in asking questions, but I believe the best lessons are taught from a good friend. Tuesdays With Morrie is a true story of the remarkable lessons taught by a dying professor, Morrie Schwartz, to his pupil, Mitch Albom. Morrie teaches Mitch the lessons of life, lessons such as death, fear, aging, greed, marriage, family, society, forgiveness, and a meaningful life. This is a story of a special bond of friendship that was lost for many years, but never forgotten and simply picked up again at a crucial time of both Morrie's and Mitch's lives.

Tuesdays with Morrie tells the real story of Morrie Schwartz. Morrie was a university professor who was dying of ALS (Lou Gehrig 's disease). Instead of being afraid of death, he faced it head on and decided to make the most of his time left. After seeing a Nightline episode featuring his old professor, Morrie, the author, Mitch, decides to pay his old professor a visit. Mitch is intrigued by Morrie 's attitude towards death and his life lessons, so he decides to visit Morrie again next Tuesday and record what Morrie has to say. This turns into a weekly meeting between Mitch and Morrie and eventually these meetings were turned into the book, Tuesdays with Morrie. Mitch - the author of the book and Morrie 's old student. Mitch is distracted in his life and focusing on things that Morrie feels are unimportant (work, fame, and success). Though focused on the wrong things, Mitch has a good heart and Morrie helps him find himself again “The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.