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Milkman And Hagar Essay

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1.1. Milkman’s lover Hagar
At the same time as Milkman has less air for breathing at home, he gets to know his cousin Hagar and is introduced to her as a brother. Although Reba corrects her mother Pilate by saying, “That ain’t her brother, Mama. They cousins”, Pilate counters, “I mean what’s the difference in the way you act toward ‘em? Don’t you have to act the same way to both?” (Morrison 54). This first encounter sets the basis of Hagar’s and Milkman’s relationship. Pilate makes clear that family is family no matter the degree of kinship. Accordingly, Pilate tries to predetermine how Hagar should regard her cousin and this conversely reveals the incestuous nature of Milkman and Hagar’s coming relationship. Notwithstanding, Morrison writes that “From the first time he saw her, when he was twelve and she was seventeen, he was …show more content…

For the first years, Hagar does not pay much attention to Milkman and he perceived her as “a distant creature” (113) while she views him as a “puppy” since she is the older of them (114). In the course of time, their relationship changes and Milkman realizes that he no longer feels attracted to her. From this moment forth, Hagar makes “Milkman the center of her life” by becoming the active since Milkman no longer chases her (Qasim and Asmat 193). Apparently Milkman loses interest when he seems to own her. Interestingly, this relationship is primarily depicted as a physical one. This directly results in the fact that Milkman’s interest is primarily of a sexual nature, but does not truly love or value her. So it is not surprising that, instead of recognizing true love, he describes Hagar as “the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference

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