1.1. Milkman’s lover Hagar
At the same time as Milkman has less air for breathing at home, he gets to know his cousin Hagar and is introduced to her as a brother. Although Reba corrects her mother Pilate by saying, “That ain’t her brother, Mama. They cousins”, Pilate counters, “I mean what’s the difference in the way you act toward ‘em? Don’t you have to act the same way to both?” (Morrison 54). This first encounter sets the basis of Hagar’s and Milkman’s relationship. Pilate makes clear that family is family no matter the degree of kinship. Accordingly, Pilate tries to predetermine how Hagar should regard her cousin and this conversely reveals the incestuous nature of Milkman and Hagar’s coming relationship. Notwithstanding, Morrison writes that “From the first time he saw her, when he was twelve and she was seventeen, he was
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For the first years, Hagar does not pay much attention to Milkman and he perceived her as “a distant creature” (113) while she views him as a “puppy” since she is the older of them (114). In the course of time, their relationship changes and Milkman realizes that he no longer feels attracted to her. From this moment forth, Hagar makes “Milkman the center of her life” by becoming the active since Milkman no longer chases her (Qasim and Asmat 193). Apparently Milkman loses interest when he seems to own her. Interestingly, this relationship is primarily depicted as a physical one. This directly results in the fact that Milkman’s interest is primarily of a sexual nature, but does not truly love or value her. So it is not surprising that, instead of recognizing true love, he describes Hagar as “the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference
Circe is so incensed when milkman offers to give her money so that she can leave the Butlers house because lack of money isn’t what’s keeping her there. Circe said. “you think I don’t know how to walk when I want to walk ?Put your money back in your pocket”(246).Milkman also mistakes her staying as a sign of loyalty to white people. Circe explains that it isn’t loyalty either, she is sick to her stomach about Mrs. Butler killing herself because she couldn’t bare the thought about having to do the work that Circe had done her whole life. Circe wants to stay in the house so that she can see it all go; making sure that nobody fixes it up. “And I want to see it all go, make sure it does go, and that nobody fixes it up”(247). Circe wants to see
The significance of Milkman’s name represents his immaturity throughout his life starting from a young age as he floats aimlessly throughout his years. Milkman has, "stretched his carefree boyhood out for thirty-one years," and cannot seem to let go of his childish ways. Never does he focus on more adult like things, but rather be juvenile about everything that comes into his way of life. The connection between Milkman and his mother and the odd yet overbearing relationship of both sexuality and indifference shapes him into the forever childhood stuck boy he was raised to be. The sucking of his mother’s breasts till he was ten made the whole town and himself identify him as Milkman, due to his inability to get away from his over charismatic
The origins of Milkman Dead’s name are based on an anecdote from his childhood, and this name accurately reflects on his rather childish and immature persona. Milkman was given his name because he was breastfed by his mother, Ruth, far past the appropriate age of breastfeeding. At the very beginning of the book, narration paints the story: “...he was old enough to be bored by the flat taste of mother’s milk, so he came reluctantly, as to a chore...and tried to pull the thin, faintly sweet milk from her flesh…” (13, Morrison). This scene reflects on Milkman’s character as he is very childish, immature, and relies on others. Many other characters in the book realize these traits that Milkman has, and some are not afraid to talk about it. At the end of Part I, Lena says, “You’ve been
Milkman’s new-found connection to his human and primal roots after going on a hunt and freeing himself from Guitar’s attempted murder symbolizes his new-found connection to his familial roots and past. Revitalized from surviving near inevitable death and finding his place in the world, Milkman is able to reform his negative attitudes towards himself that were translated through his limp, which he had taken on because of his self-consciousness over his shorter leg. Instead he now views them as a natural, like tree trunks, and accepts them along with his roots, redefining his self-identity.
1. What are the main themes, politically and socially, that are portrayed in the film?
In the fast paced world of today, advertisers have to keep up with the times. One of the best ways they do this is through the Got Milk ads. Milk is a part of everyday life and the advertisers for Milk show this through modern tactics and popular celebrities. By putting familiar faces on magazine ads and using interesting T.V. commercials, companies sell their products. The ways in which they sell the products is not by just stating that their product is good, they appeal to the human emotions, ethics and most of all what is logical. There are many ad campaigns out there that strongly target one area, such as your emotions, but the Got Milk advertisers campaign has all three of these factors.
She expresses herself in ways that are more destructive. Violence is the outlet Hagar sees in expressing herself. Her “graveyard love” for Milkman initially mutes her voice (148). His goodbye letter “sent Hagar spinning into a bright blue place where the air was thin and it was silent all the time, and where people spoke in whispers or did not make sounds at all, and where everything was frozen except for an occasional burst of fire inside her chest” (116). Hagar is hardly aware of her own emotions and finds it impossible for her to tell Milkman how she feels because she has no identity. Instead, Hagar turns to physical violence. She was a “doormat wom[a]n” that “wanted to kill for love, die for love” (336). When she tries to kill Milkman, she finds herself “paralyzed” by her obsessive love for him (150). Like Ryna, her love left her. When Milkman left and “dreamt of flying, Hagar was dying” (363). Hagar’s extreme obsession ultimately turns self-destructive and assists to the cause of her death. She spends her last hours in a frantic search for clothes and cosmetics that will make Milkman love her again. She dies convinced that “he loves silky hair . . . penny-colored hair . . . and lemon-colored skin . . . and gray-blue eyes” unlike her own (346). To Hagar, her African-American race and body are worthless if they do not attract Milkman; she was trying to create “this ideal of beauty” that she could never have (Pereira). Hagar’s dependence on Milkman and
Hagar after knowing that she isn't love back led her to murder Milkman. When Milkman got tired of Hagar, who was not caring about him that much till then, started to have interest in him. As soon as she realize that she couldn’t get the love back from him, she tried to kill him. She tried to attempt the murder for “six times in as many months”(130), each time with different weapons but failed, but she would not give up because she didn't want him to leave her. Murder was the way that Hagar showed her affection toward Milkman because “He’s the one who’s tryin to take himself out of her life. And she’ll kill him before she lets him do that”(139) states the nature of loving that one will kill others to get love. In this case, Hagar tried to kill him because he is the one who is trying to leave her and only way she knew how to stop it was to kill him since she can't control his feeling toward her. Her
Hagar finally gives up trying to kill Milkman. When Guitar got back from Virginia he finds Hagar waiting for him at his house. He told her to go sit while he looked for a car so that he can drive her home.while he is looking for the car he starts getting mad because of the fact that Hagar is deeply in love with Milkman. Guitar tells Hagar that everything he has loved left him. And it is hard for him to love anything because he is used to it going away and he told Hagar that he only loved one woman but Hagar isn’t even listening to him. Guitar drove Hagar back to Pilate, and Reba and Pilate started treating Hagar with sympathy, doing everything she needed. Hagar thinks that Milkman doesn’t like her anymore because she is ugly and she asked Pilate
The 2008 film Milk is based on a true story about a political leader who desired to see a change in America, specifically the freedom of choice and speech towards homosexuals. The motion picture takes place after Harvey Milk’s 40th birthday and captures the rest of his life as he strives to convince America to let the gay community out of the closet. The movie portrays the historical activist very well, including the surrounding characters as well as the actual events that took place during his time in office.
An important element in Bayar’s upbringing is the fact that for the most part, he remains tightly swaddled in a blanket resting atop a carpet covered bed. His older brother sleeps on the floor beneath. For what seems like a good portion of Bayar’s first year, he is left to observe family life going on around him. Again, the mother is the primary caregiver for the children even though she is also involved in the upkeep of the animals on the farm. The father is documented in sparse interactions like when he sits over Bayar on the bed and waves a rattle in his face. And while the hut the family resides in appears to be hand crafted, the home does contain furniture, cooking devices, electricity and there is also a large satellite out front. Bayar is bathed in a pail in the living room and at one point; the mother squirts breast milk in his face and wipes him down with a cloth.
As a result of his spoiled childhood Milkman takes women for granted. He doesn't consider how his actions affect them. This is shown when he realizes he is bored with his cousin Hagar, whom he has been using for his sexual pleasure for years. Instead of buying her a Christmas gift he gives her cash
Mark (38) and Sean (40) are parents of a 14 -year-old son named Elijah. The couple has been married for two years, but have been domestic partners for over 18 years. They adopted Elijah, Mark’s nephew, when he was a one-year old after Mark’s sister and brother-in-law died in a car accident. Mark and Sean are the only family Elijah knows and he calls them both dad. The couple feels like a “traditional” family, but they have been recently reminded that it is not as traditional as it seemed when some of their son’s junior high classmates who had been taunting the boy took to pelting the house with stones and beer cans. Elijah shrugged off the incident by saying he does not let such things bother him but his uneasiness, his yearning to isolate, and his recent verbal attacks on his parents indicate differently.
Besides the children of Macon Dead, there are other biblical allusions in the names of people. One of these is Hagar, Pilate's son and Milkman's cousin. Though the biblical Hagar is not well known, her character in the Bible reflects, in some ways, the character in Morrison's novel. In the bible, Hagar is Sarah's handmaiden. When she bares the son
African American racial tension has decreased drastically, since the fifties our country has leaps and bounds towards equality. James Baldwin wrote Stranger in the Village, and he wrote about his experience living in a small Swiss village and how he was able to evaluate the American society and its issues of race. Baldwin specifically focused on African American racial issues. Baldwin makes arguments about how race is treated much different in Europe, he also argued how there are still a lot of problems with American society that need to be changed. I agree with Baldwin's thoughts however this essay is outdated and isn't completely relevant to our society today; however some of the broader ideas are.