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Lysander: Eulogy For Father

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Father, you need to understand Lysander is the right man for me! He treats me so well, unlike Demetrius who slept with my best friend, don’t you think I deserve to choose who I want to spend my life with? Lysander loves me more than anything, much more than Demetrius ever will. If you turn down such a respectful man like him, it’ll only bring you regret. He gives me all that I want, and as your daughter that should satisfy you at least a little - the fact that I’m happy with him. You even said so yourself that he’d sat by my window at night and “Sung with feigning voice, verses of feigning love And stol’n” (I.i.30-32) my imagination. He brings me such lovely gifts and flowers and is always so understanding, I’ve never seen him break a promise …show more content…

Do you not recall what Lysander had pointed out to all of us, about the fact that he “Made love to Nedar’s daughter, Helena, And won her soul” (I.i. 107-108). Yeah, I’m sure you didn’t know about that incident. Plus, then after keeping all that secret you find it alright for him to scurry over to me, as if he just needed another woman to use? Is that really someone you’d want your daughter to be with? Not only that but he doesn’t really seem like the brightest person...I mean do you know how many times “I frown upon him, yet he loves me still” (I.i.194)? He can’t even get it through his thick skull that I want no part of him whatsoever. “I give him curses, yet he gives me love...The more I hate, the more he follows me” (I.i. 196-198). It’s exhausting! If he had the slightest bit of intelligence, he’d get the actually get the hint. Instead though, he continues to constantly try to ‘protect me’ from the man I actually want to be with. I wish you would just see he’s stupid and is not worthy of me at all …show more content…

Have you ever thought about I want? I know you think it would be horrid if I decided not to marry Demetrius but “So will I grow, so live, so die...Ere I will yield my virgin patent up Unto his lordship, whose unwished yoke My soul consents not to give sovereignty” (I.i. 79-82). He’s not the one for me, I know what I want and that’s Lysander. I would hope that you’d rather have me live a happy life than a miserable one with Demetrius. If you cared enough about me then stop with these threats! Would you really send your daughter off to die just because of an unwanted marriage? Do something to Lysander and I will be heartbroken for the rest of my life. I should have the right to marry who I want, and do what I want! Yes, I get that you’re my father but it’s my life, not yours and “I refuse to wed Demetrius” (I.i.

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