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Love In The Awakening

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Love and Self in The Awakening

Kate Chopin's The Awakening is often said to triumph the exploration on the emotional and sexual needs of women, and the novel certainly is about that to a great extent, but even more importantly, it is a quest for individuality and the meaning of love. Through the protagonist, Edna Pontellier, Chopin describes in her novel one woman's journey towards self-consciousness. Several stages of 'awakenings' can be detected on the road, which are discussed in detail, along with the themes of romantic love, possession and an individual self. Darwinian theories are used to some extent to explore the nature of love and the meaning it had for Chopin.

According to Bert Bender, Kate …show more content…

According to Darwin's study, however, usually "the male is the more active member in the courtship of the sexes" (p. 229). The female is less eager, even "coy, and may often be seen endeavoring for a long time to escape from the male" (p. 230). This eagerness and passion in the male is natural and even necessary, since "the acquirement of such passions would naturally follow from the more eager leaving a larger number of offspring than the less eager." (p. 231). Sexual selection has a highly important part in differences between the sexes. Woman is more tender and unselfish, owing to her maternal instinct, and her mental powers are based on intuition, rapid perception and imitation. Man, on the other hand, is competitive and ambitious, which often leads to selfishness. He has attained greater eminence in deep though, reason, imagination and in using his senses and hands. "Thus man has become ultimately superior to woman" (Darwin, p. 585).

Bender argues (p. 461) that Chopin found the general principles of Darwin's natural and sexual selection reasonable and accepted the basic premises of the evolution theory. Chopin would not have been a rebel in her time, however, had she not rejected his so very Victorian ideas of natural female passivity and men's superiority over women. Here, says Bender, begins Chopin's "meditations on sexual selection and its implications for the meaning of love" (p.

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