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Leaving Home Research Paper

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One spring, Danny was on a high school baseball team. They worked hard together and won the state championship his senior year. The next spring, he was a member of the 101st Airborne, on patrol with his squad in unfamiliar territory. And a few springs later, he was boarding a plane home ... wondering what he would do now.

In many ways, leaving the military can be like leaving a marriage -- you know it's over, but you miss the relationship; you miss working together towards a common goal. You feel all alone. Isolated.

You may try to reunite with your old team members. They have gone their separate ways, though. They are busy finishing school or starting a career or have a family. And they quickly grow tired of your ceaseless recounting of adventures in the service.

You will never forget the military, but you must re-enter the world
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Life has gone on without you. That old girlfriend may be married. Your best friend may no longer share common interests. That hangout where your friends met is no longer be the most blissful spot around. You aren't going back to where you left. That place has changed ... and so have you. Your reality is colored by your thoughts. (2) When you expect something to be one way -- but it is not like that at all -- you experience mental anguish. Expect that things have changed. For, they have.
Fight the tendency to feel as if you are now all alone. Without your band of brothers walking with you, it can feel as if you have been deserted -- left to face the enemy on your own. This is a seriously vulnerable place to be. You may fall in with any group that seems accepting of you -- and many times it's not a group that will add value to your life. Rather, they will drag you down to places you really don't want to go. Many a returning veteran has ended up in trouble with the law, having hooked up with the wrong group at the wrong time.

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