I relate the time before flying to America to a dentist’s waiting room: Sitting on an uncomfortable chair while trying to distract myself, nervous of what was about to come. Thus, I totally refuted to talk or even think about the entire experience, and my sole consolation was that I would be back in less than a year, or that I thought. My fear of not being accepted initially held me back, being also afraid of giving up the sense of belonging. Today, after fifteen months living in the states, I can assert that losing part of my identity as Spanish to adapt to the US has been the key element on my self-acceptance. And that is the essence of my journey: Building a flexible personality to be seen as both American and Spanish.
In my first attempt
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I went to sleep very proud that night. Sadly, as soon as my feeling of compliance started rising, it was time to go back home.
Going back was even harder than leaving. Accepting that my relationship with my family and friends had changed was a tough and paradoxical process: their well-intended attempts to make me feel comfortable appeared phony to me, since I was never treated like that before. I don’t blame them; they just wanted me to make me as happy as possible during that exaggeratedly short summer. I must admit that I’m guilty too, since I tried to disguise myself under an excessively mature and independent personality.
Thinking back to the months previous to travelling to the U.S., I realize that my feeling of distress was reasonable, since I had to give up part of what I was, but that is what adapting is all about. Coming to the US has taught me many things, but the most important lesson I have learned is to accept myself. Thus, I have decided to enjoy the advantages of being an international student without forgetting my origins. If I keep a positive mindset, I’m sure the best is yet to
The two arguments, Coming and Going: Round-Trip to America by Mark Wyman and Permanently Lost: The Trauma of Immigration by Victor Greene provides readers with an insight about the crucial labor conditions, the physical and mental deformities, and the struggles to gain a small fortune immigrants from various countries faced during their stay in America. In Wyman’s argument, the author focused on the harsh living/ working conditions immigrants experienced while building up a new, industrialized nation. Despite such cruel conditions, the author acknowledges the fact that immigrants chose to be mistreated and work for low wages in hopes to save enough fortune to take back to their homelands. In Greene’s argument, the author focuses on the sorrow
Although the journey through the first year of college is not as perilous as Enrique’s trek to America, it is still full of hardships that must be faced head on. Enrique’s Journey pushed me out of my comfort zone and made me think of how others must think of this country. As a natural born citizen, I have had these
In 1860s, due to the fact that southern states desired to maintain the slavery while the North wanted to ban the slavery, then the Union which was leaded by Abraham Lincoln fought with the Confederacy which was conducted by Jefferson Davis, and the Union hoped to achieve a goal that preserved the unity. However,because the South owned a large number of troops, controlled wide geographic extent, and had a powerful government, it was difficult for the Union to defeat the Confederacy thoroughly.Furthermore, the Confederacy`s strategy was that it just needed to defense, fought with the North in its own lands, and waited for northern opposition of the war growing up, then it could convince the Union to stop the Civil War (Goldfield,ed.,The American Journey: A History of the United State, P402).
Following the Civil War, Confederate soldiers return home to “cope with the consequences of their defeat.” (Goldfield, ed., The American Journey: A History of the United States, 451)Upon their return, they notices the downfall and destruction of their homes and towns, economic devastation, death, and poverty. Transforming their “struggle into a symbol of courage” (Goldfield, 452) they sought for redemption, Reconstruction. Having to seek shelter with their families, the ex-confederate soldiers feared the revenge of the former slaves for the many years of slavery and mistreatment. They believed that improvement of African Americans as a direct challenge to white superiority. They could learn to accept the destruction of families, farms, and fortunes, but not racial order. White southerners were determined to keep control over their governments. “The war may have ended slavery, but white southerners were determined to preserve
The first few weeks I came to America made me feel lonely and nervous. I was afraid of talking to strangers and even my classmates. Honestly, I wanted to dodge schools and hide myself at home. However, one day, I went to the basketball court in the school. This really made me a difference on me. I met a few classmates and I asked to play with them. To my surprise, they agree immediately. This started to shape my identity. Then, I started to talk with them in ENGLISH. Basketball players, basketball teams and then Mills High
In the poems on America many of the writers write about love for a certain view of this country.
Last week, I interviewed my father, Danny balint about his immigration story and how he his life was there. He told me about his journey to America arriving here in 1996, and his life in America when he came here was similar and different in many ways. I have learned a lot from interviewing him and that life was a lot different from our lives now. For instance one of his first job in Romania was setting up bowling pins earning 2.50$ every hour. Another thing I learned is that his baseball team earned second place in the country of Romania
My family and I came to America in search of a better life. The journey was a long and dangerous, but in the end, it was better for my family and me. I am from the Congo of central Africa and at the time the country had begun to recover from the war, but life was harsh. Living conditions were bad. Food and water were scarce, and soldiers would roam the streets terrorizing innocent villagers. But the worst problems came from home.
In the book “The Long Way Home: An American Journey” the author has many arguments and facts that he is trying to point out. “The only defensible war is a war is a war or defense” says Gilbert K. Chesterton. “The long way home an American journey” is about, The United States, always being a nation of immigrants and I say this because the U.S. had started out with foreign nationalities such as the Caucasians because when they entered the U.S. they claimed “to be the first to find America”, “says Christopher Columbus.”(The Long Way Home) So in 1917 when the U.S. nation army entered in the First World War that had about 2.5 million soldiers, who fought with U.S. armed forces in the long waterways of France and Belgium, some of that half a million nearly was one out of every five men were immigrants that was fighting with the U.S. armed force. In The Long Way Home, David Laskin, is also about Italians, Jews, Poles, Norwegians, Slovaks, Russians, and Irish men that had entered in the First World War U.S. Army as not known people and returned as Americans. In other words the native people that entered in the war were native people that were not normally recognized when they had come to the U.S. to fight in the First World War. In the native people childhoods in Europe, is where Laskin had started to unfolds the saga of their journeys in Ellis Island. While stating a new chapter in their lives
Since I came to America, I made great progress not only with foreign languages but also with my adaptive capabilities. From what I saw, read, and talked with my friends, I realized that I am improving more and more. In the past two years, I learned a lot more here. This experience not only broadens my view but also enriches my life. It changed my life for the good.
The pilgrims were a group of people who were determined to change their lives. They wanted to live somewhere where they could freely worship God. So, they set off to find somewhere where they would not be persecuted or judged for what they believed. They fought through treacherous waters, sickness, and the new territory once they got on land. The pilgrims showed many different characteristics by making that journey to America. The three biggest characteristics the pilgrims showed were courage (bravery), love, and optimism.
Mrs. Miller started talking, “Okay everyone,tomorrow you will have different seating arrangments. The people that you sit with will be part of your colony sailing to America.”
Robert Beverly expressed that he felt only those in a poor financial situation would dare to venture into the uncertainty that is the “New World”. He feels that a person of good wealth would have no need to leave Europe in search of new lands. Additionally, he points of the unneeded difficultes one would face traveling to and living in America.
There are many significant parts of my life that have had a huge impact on my personality, but there is one that has not only affected me, but has changed me for the better. My personal life changing experience was coming to America. For me, this bridge between my old life and new life is a shaky bridge that I attempted to cross and entered a whole new realm of life which changed everything. The decision about coming to America has taught me how to respect other people, be more responsible, and be more loving towards various friends and families. It has also helped me adapt to the new life that I’m about to begin. It was so unexpected. Out of nowhere my parents broke the news: “We’re going to America!” Living in a big town of Bhopal,
up the phone and rang my Tom’s father to thank him, and for me and Tom