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John's Addiction

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In the short story, the audience learns that John struggles with addiction to alcohol. His addiction is very noticeable and obvious. Because of his alcoholism, the father and his song had “drifted apart.” While at home, John will often pour himself a “small drink” and refrain from any necessary interactions with his family. During an event for his son’s boy scout club, John quickly realizes that his son has become a stranger to him as “he seemed to know less about the boy than anyone.” Throughout the event, John thirsts for alcohol and eventually ends up sharing a bottle with a fellow alcoholic. Although, he had admirable intentions, John creates a scene and causes everyone to stare when he stumbles and crashes into a table, breaking numerous …show more content…

However, John fails to be involved in his son’s life and often neglects the boy in numerous scenarios. His son has been active throughout his years, always being involved in athletics and clubs. However, the father is never present at these events and finds himself lacking knowledge of his son’s interests. While talking with his son, he struggles to carry on a conversation regarding son’s baseball team because “he didn't even know what position his own son played, or even the name of the team.” As his son grew older, the cloud of neglect flourished suffocating the father and son’s relationship. During the evening, John comes to the realization that “his family had a life separate from his own.” His actions of neglect and indifference has caused a barrier between his family and himself. An example of this is while his wife makes a tasteful dinner, the father refuses to eat with his family and waits to eat alone once they have left the house. The relationship between him and his wife demonstrates the effects of his neglectic behavior. They seldom speak and this reflects upon his relationship with their son as …show more content…

John shows a willingness to change his ways and attempt to resolve conflicts that have arose between him and his family. As John evaluates his relationships, he is able to admit to his own fault and understands his need to change if he wishes to stay apart of his family. While debating going to the event, John analyzes how “he was too preoccupied with other things to pay much heed to the boys activities.” Because of this, John feels a wash of guilt and figures “he owed it to the boy.” During the event, John tries to keep good intentions and is “anxious to create a good impression for the sake of the boy.” His effort to change and become a better person and father is clear. He is no longer looking for an outlet for his blame and know understands and thinks to himself, “No, it’s your fault. It’s always been your fault.” His acceptance of his fault is the first step in trying to change his ways in order to better his relationship with his

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