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John Maxwell's An Inspector Calls: A Narrative Fiction

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One day, while my son Zac and I were out in the country, climbing around in some cliffs, I heard a voice from above me yell, "Hey Dad! Catch me!" I turned around to see Zac joyfully jumping off a rock straight at me. He had jumped and them yelled "Hey Dad!" I became an instant circus act, catching him. We both fell to the ground. For a moment after I caught him I could hardly talk. When I found my voice again I gasped in exasperation: "Zac! Can you give me one good reason why you did that???" He responded with remarkable calmness: "Sure...because you're my Dad." His whole assurance was based in the fact that his father was trustworthy. He could live life to the hilt because I could be trusted. Isn't this even more true for a Christian? -Tim …show more content…

However, in this post I want to give you some practical things to help make the task seems less daunting. When we are working with congregations who as us for the magic bullet to reach their community we have just one word for them. If you want to know the secret to be relevant in your community come closer and I will tell you. A little closer. The secret is RELATIONSHIPS! John Maxwell once said about leadership, “Everything rises and falls on leadership.” We every lasting impact we have, any hope we have of overcoming racial tension, any hope of seeing beyond color, is based on our ability to build authentic relationships. On to the task at hand, how do you develop a circle of trust. I believe there are five key …show more content…

“I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” Do you ever feel that way when you are talking to someone very different than yourself? That what they heard is not all what you meant. As the relationship develops with people from different backgrounds you learn as you spend more time in an authentic relationship to interpret what people are actually saying. In the beginning there is a great deal of time spent on explaining, what you meant. So be patient with each other. 3 Consider each other as equal partners in the relationship. Trust is established when you begin this relationship as equals. Now that may sound strange, but often times we enter into a relationship with a sense of superiority. I have something valuable to offer you. If the relationship begins with a hierarchical mindset it will begin at a huge disadvantage for both parties. You don’t develop authentic heathy relationships when one partner feels superior. It is hard to respect and find value in someone you even is beneath

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